The psycho-analytic study of the familyFlugel, J. C. (John Carl)
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The psycho-analytic study of the family
Flugel, J. C. (John Carl)
Families; Marriage; Parent and child; Psychoanalysis
(1) First in time and perhaps also in importance would seem to be a group
of factors connected with the long period of infancy, childhood and youth,
which characterises, to a greater or a less extent, all branches of the
human race. During this long period, the child is, as we have more than
once emphasised, wholly or partially dependent on its parents for the
satisfaction of its needs. Now it is a fundamental tendency of the mind to
experience pleasure in connection with, and generally to appreciate, those
objects which administer to, or are associated with, the basic needs and
requirements of the organism; _i. e._ the mind tends naturally to react
towards these objects in a manner which, at a higher level of development,
we should designate as love[226]. It is not altogether surprising then
that, the parents being for many years associated with the fulfilment
of the great majority of conscious needs, the nascent love of the child
should be directed to them in a greater measure than to any other object.
[Sidenote: Primitive sympathy reacting on the expressions of instinctive
parental feeling]
(2) It is a pretty generally recognised fact that--in virtue of a process
which McDougall[227] has conveniently designated primitive sympathy--among
the stimuli which are most effective in producing any given feeling or
emotion are the manifestations of that feeling or emotion in some other
person or persons. Now it is generally admitted by psychologists that
the presence of children tends to evoke an instinctive affection and
tenderness on the part of the parents; the biological justification, and
indeed necessity, for such an instinct, as well as for the fact of its
existence being indeed sufficiently manifest--especially no doubt in women
but to a considerable extent in men also. In virtue of this instinctive
tenderness parents naturally give expression to their affection in the
presence of the children, whereupon the latter, reacting through primitive
sympathy, tend to experience affection in their turn and to direct it
upon the nearest and most appropriate object--_i. e._ the parent whose
manifestations of tenderness have aroused the emotion. This sequence of
events being frequently repeated, the child's affections come in time to
be firmly attached to the parent, reciprocating the affection he receives
from this direction.
[Sidenote: Love and respect as elements of imitation and suggestibility]
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