The psycho-analytic study of the familyFlugel, J. C. (John Carl)
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The psycho-analytic study of the family
Flugel, J. C. (John Carl)
Families; Marriage; Parent and child; Psychoanalysis
(3) Again, it is evident that, especially in primitive communities, the
child is dependent on its parent, not only for the fulfilment of its
elementary needs and desires, but also for the opportunity of learning
how to fulfil these needs and desires in its own person. This process of
learning implies--especially perhaps in immature minds--a tendency to
imitate the teacher and to be suggestible towards him. Now suggestibility,
as we have already seen, probably depends to a considerable extent
upon love; it certainly depends largely upon an attitude of respect or
admiration on the part of the one who is suggestible. Much the same is
true of imitation; we notoriously tend to imitate those whom we love, whom
we admire, and to whom we look up with confidence and veneration. This
being the case, the adoption of an attitude of love and respect towards
his parents, would be of considerable advantage to the child, as enabling
him to acquire more readily those capacities, habits and ideas which he
most naturally learns from his parents (and later on from those on to
whom the parent-regarding feelings are displaced) through imitation and
suggestion. In view of the comparatively unformed and plastic condition of
many of the instinctive tendencies in human infants, the ability to learn
easily and quickly from their elders is of great importance to children
in their early years. We have here then very possibly a factor which
contributes to the survival-value of a strong parent attachment, though it
may not actually call any such attachment into being.
[Sidenote: Early arousal of sex tendencies in the family is necessary for
cultural displacements]
(4) Modern psychology is showing more and more that the growth of man's
principal instinctive tendencies is continuous from early youth upward
to maturity, there being few or no sudden changes, transitions or fresh
departures as development proceeds. The work of Freud and his followers
has, above all, clearly shown that the sexual tendencies are not narrowly
confined to processes intimately connected with the reproduction of
the species, but pervade the whole life of the individual, manifesting
themselves in a great variety of ways, many of which are very far removed
from the reproductive sphere but are of the greatest importance in the
increase and maintenance of culture. More especially it has been shown (in
a way which we have to some extent already studied) that these tendencies
undergo a continuous process of development from childhood upwards, and
that on their growth and history depends to a considerable extent the
character and social value of the individual.
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