The psycho-analytic study of the family — John Shaqi
The psycho-analytic study of the familyFlugel, J. C. (John Carl)
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The psycho-analytic study of the family
Flugel, J. C. (John Carl)
Families; Marriage; Parent and child; Psychoanalysis
On the moral side, again, he is at first almost entirely dependent on the
judgment of others. He hears certain tendencies, activities and sentiments
condemned as wicked, others upheld as praiseworthy, and even when he
begins to pronounce moral judgments on his own account, these judgments
must, for a long period, consist for the most part merely of fresh
applications of the moral code that he has learnt from others.
This subservience to the will and opinion of others (and especially to
those of the parents) is a necessary and natural condition of early
childhood, but it is plain that the successful development of mind and
character must demand a gradually increasing degree of autonomy as regards
both thought and conduct, as capabilities mature and experience widens.
Success in adult life requires the capacity for determining for oneself
the nature and course of the principal activities--indeed, the degree of
success that is attained is to a very considerable extent dependent on
the amount of such capacity. He who can only carry out the instructions
of others, however obediently and skilfully, is only fitted to occupy an
inferior position in the economic or the social scale. Hence, one who has
never progressed far from the infantile condition of dependence on the
commands and opinions of others will be lacking in one of the character
qualities which are essential for the attainment of any high degree of
individuality or of social and economic responsibility.
[Sidenote: Autonomy and Moral Development]
On the moral side also, he is debarred from the higher levels of ethical
development. At the best, his morality will be one of hard and fast rules,
the dictates of parental, ecclesiastical, legal or social authority,
incapable of enlightened growth or modification to suit the ever changing
flow of circumstances and the widening experience of life. At the worst,
he may grow up destitute of all true moral consciousness whatsoever,
morality being regarded by him as a certain (usually unpleasant) kind of
conduct, arbitrarily imposed by external authority, and only fit to be
abandoned as soon as the pressure of this authority is relaxed.
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