The psycho-analytic study of the familyFlugel, J. C. (John Carl)
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The psycho-analytic study of the family
Flugel, J. C. (John Carl)
Families; Marriage; Parent and child; Psychoanalysis
Of particular interest in this connection is the displacement of feelings
originally directed to the parents towards _relatives in law._ Since by
marriage one partner in the marriage is supposed to have entered into
the family of the other, and, in virtue of the partial identification
of the two partners through common ties of interest and affection, may
really be said to have in some measure effected such an entrance, it is
not altogether surprising to find much the same conflict of tendencies
centering about the new relatives acquired by marriage as that which
formerly centred round the relatives by blood. Thus on the one hand we
find among primitive peoples the same taboos and avoidances practised in
the one case as in the other. In some places, for instance, a man may have
no dealings with some or all of the members of his wife's family, nor
a wife with those of her husband's[106]. On the other hand a number of
practices indicate that connections of an intimate kind between relatives
by marriage are, under certain circumstances at any rate, regarded as
permissible and appropriate. Such, for instance, is the widespread custom
of the Levirate[107], whereby a man is expected to take unto himself
his deceased brother's wife or the scarcely less frequent usage of the
Sororate[108] whereby a man marries his deceased wife's sister--practices
which seem to have made their influence felt (negatively) in our own table
of relatives with whom wedlock is forbidden, including, as this does, not
only blood relatives but relatives by marriage[109].
[Sidenote: Parent-in-law and child-in-law]
[Sidenote: Difficulties caused by parent fixation on the part of husband
or wife]
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