The Real Shelley. New Views of the Poet's Life. Vol. 2 (of 2)Jeaffreson, John Cordy
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The Real Shelley. New Views of the Poet's Life. Vol. 2 (of 2)
Jeaffreson, John Cordy
Poets, English -- 19th century -- Biography; Shelley, Percy Bysshe, 1792-1822
In the dictionaries of the English language ‘husband’ is defined as ‘a man
contracted or joined to a woman by marriage;’ ‘wife’ is defined as ‘a
woman who is united to a man in the lawful bonds of wedlock;’ and
‘marriage’ is defined as ‘the legal union of a man and woman for life.’
The world accepts these definitions, acts upon them, and will, I trust,
continue to act upon them. Speaking deliberately, I say (Mr. Kegan Paul
notwithstanding) that persons who use these words for the misdescription
of Free Lovers, with an intention to deceive their hearers, are guilty of
falsehood. I say this deliberately, though Marian Evans (noble creature
though she was, and exemplary in all matters, apart from her miserable
association with George Henry Lewes) used to speak and write of him as her
‘husband.’ Possibly Marian Evans did not so misdescribe her relation to
George Lewes _with an intention to deceive_. I have no evidence that she
ever so misdescribed herself and Lewes to any person, without having
reason to think the person cognizant of the facts of the case. And _I do
know_ that to certain gentlewomen, she was honourably communicative on the
matter, so that they might not associate with her, under a misapprehension
respecting her domestic position. But her conduct cannot affect the
obligation of Free Lovers to be truthful. Having the courage of their
opinions, they should tell the world openly what they are. They might
style themselves ‘bosom-friends,’ or call themselves ‘free husbands and
free wives.’ But they have no right to call themselves ‘husbands’ and
‘wives.’ Out of respect for themselves and their principles they should
refrain from the ordinary untruthful practice of ‘kept mistresses’ and
their keepers.
Ninety years since the woman (who according to Mr. Kegan Paul considered
herself a wife in the eyes of God and _man_) did not presume to style
herself Imlay’s wife even to her own sisters. All she could do was to
speak of herself truthfully as living in France under his ‘protection,’
when on 10th March, 1794, she wrote from Havre to her sister Everina, ‘If
any of the many letters I have written have come to your hands or Eliza’s,
you know I am safe, through the protection of an American, a most worthy
man, &c.;’--words committed to paper, when she was within a few weeks of
giving birth to her illegitimate child. To her own sister Mary
Wollstonecraft described herself as a woman living under ‘protection.’ Mr.
Kegan Paul published the letter in which she thus describes herself; and
yet he says she considered herself as wife in the eyes of her
fellow-creatures.
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