Adoption, with us, is a kind of domestic luxury, akin to the keeping
of any other pets, such as lap-dogs and canaries. It is a species of
self-indulgence which those who can afford it give themselves when
fortune has proved unpropitious, an artificial method of counteracting
the inequalities of fate. That such is the plain unglamoured view of the
procedure is shown by the age at which the object is adopted. Usually
the future son or daughter enters the adoptive household as an infant,
intentionally so on the part of the would-be parents. His ignorance of
a previous relationship largely increases his relative value; for the
possibility of his making comparisons in his own mind between a former
state of existence and the present one unfavorable to the latter is
not pleasant for the adopters to contemplate. He is therefore acquired
young. The amusement derived from his company is thus seen to be
distinctly paramount to all other considerations. No one cares so
heartily to own a dog which has been the property of another; a fortiori
of a child. It is clearly, then, not as a necessity that the babe is
adopted. If such were the case, if like the ancient Romans all a man
wanted was the continuance of the family line, he would naturally wait
until the last practicable moment; for he would thus save both care and
expense. In the Far East adoption is quite a different affair. There
it is a genealogical necessity--like having a father or mother. It is,
indeed, of almost more importance. For the great desideratum to these
peoples is not ancestors but descendants. Pedigrees in the land of
the universal opposite are not matters of bequest but of posthumous
reversion. A man is not beholden to the past, he looks forward to the
future for inherited honors. No fame attaches to him for having had an
illustrious grandfather. On the contrary, it is the illustrious grandson
who reflects some of his own greatness back upon his grandfather. If
a man therefore fail to attain eminence himself, he always has another
chance in his descendants; for he will of necessity be ennobled through
the merits of those who succeed him. Such is the immemorial law of the
land. Fame is retroactive. This admirable system has only one objection:
it is posthumous in its effect. An ambitious man who unfortunately lacks
ability himself has to wait too long for vicarious recognition. The
objection is like that incident to the making of a country seat out of
a treeless plain by planting the same with saplings. About the time the
trees begin to be worth having the proprietary landscape-gardener dies
of old age. However, as custom permits a Far Oriental no ancestral
growth of timber, he is obliged to lay the seeds of his own family
trees. Natural offspring are on the whole easier to get, and more
satisfactory when got. Hence the haste with which these peoples rush
into matrimony. If in despite of his precipitation fate perversely
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