The steps of life: further essays on happinessHilty, Karl
Philosophy
The steps of life: further essays on happiness
Hilty, Karl
Conduct of life; Happiness
In his later years, the outlines of a man’s character ordinarily come
out much more clearly than in his earlier. Real piety reveals itself in
the patient bearing of the manifold burdens of age, fictitious piety
in impatience and in a religion that becomes more and more formal.
Avarice, envy, covetousness, anger, the love of honor and praise, and
even, at times, the desire of secret, sensual pleasure, come with
elementary, unmistakable force to light as the ruling passions of life;
and the man pronounces his own judgment in the sight of his fellows.
Rarely does any one, like Augustus, carry a rôle through to the end,
and even this great actor was not successful. On the other hand, no one
can read Cromwell’s last prayer and think him a hypocrite, unless he is
one himself.
And finally, sorrows play their part in revealing human nature. In
any great sorrow the thoughts of men are disclosed. Envy comes to
light to rejoice; generosity, to help; and indifference, to pass by
on the other side. Whoever has had no thorough experience of this in
person, does not know men. In the first part of life, when experience
is still small, the greatest danger in one’s attitude to men is that
of considering them of too much importance; in the second, that of
becoming too indifferent to them.
There is yet another and quite different source of the knowledge of
human nature, but a source not to be desired for any one not already
acquainted with it; I mean the power possessed by the nervously
disordered. In such cases there is a very clear physical intuition
as to the kind of nature there is in other people, of whom the one
may have as quieting and refreshing an influence upon the sick man as
clear, cool water, while the other only excites and frets. Such is
the knowledge of men the Bible ascribes to those “possessed of evil
spirits.” But these are diseased conditions which ought not to be, and
which should not be needlessly meddled with.
* * * * *
Experience has established some of the following principles in the art
of reading men:
As with courtesy, so it is with a man’s probity; if it is genuine,
it shows itself in his conduct in the small things. Probity in small
matters springs from a moral foundation, while probity on the large
scale is often only habit or prudence and gives no clew as to a man’s
real character.
Vanity and the lust for honors are always a bad symptom, for both rest
at bottom upon a self-condemnation which tries to supply the missing
inner contentment by outward show or the approving judgment of others.
Thoroughgoing pessimists are always vain. By their pessimism they
give us to understand more or less clearly that they themselves would
really be an exception to this base human rabble if they could count on
understanding their nature.
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