The steps of life: further essays on happinessHilty, Karl
Philosophy
The steps of life: further essays on happiness
Hilty, Karl
Conduct of life; Happiness
An overmodest nature, especially if given to self-irony, is never to be
trusted; in most cases a strong dose of vanity and the love of praise
hides behind. Truly modest men usually speak neither good nor bad of
themselves, and do not want people to concern themselves about them.
Vain persons, on the other hand, by the apparently modest method of
self-depreciation, often seek to draw attention to themselves, or to
catch out-and-out compliments.
A kind-hearted readiness to help is the sure sign of a good character,
while cruelty to animals and ridicule of men is a sure sign of a bad
character.
One of the best tests of real kind-heartedness is the conduct of men
in the presence of long-persisting or altogether hopeless misfortune:
those who possess but little of that quality grow weary and soon
abandon the unfortunate one to his fate, perhaps with the fine
sentiment, “one must leave him alone with his God”; others, who with
a true sympathy persevere, stand the highest test of the unselfish
love of humanity. Such are ordinarily simple, poor people, while the
cultured and the rich far more rarely show themselves equal to the
test. This natural nobility of character, the most valuable of all the
natural endowments of men, is far more generally found in the lower
classes, and the “noblest of the nations” are to be sought elsewhere
than where we are wont, in the usual manner of speaking, to assume them
to be.
The basest human characteristic is innate faithlessness. When this is
present, all the other so-called good qualities do not countervail;
they but make the man the more dangerous, while faithfulness makes
some expiation for the worst failings.
A sure mark of an essentially mean man is ingratitude. It sets him
below the nobler animals, all of which are grateful. An especially
hateful form of ingratitude is that which, in order to escape the
necessity of showing gratitude, treats the acceptance of benefits as
a favor shown by the receiver and therefore an honor conferred upon
the giver for which he must feel under obligation. Benefits received
generally make only the noble-minded thankful. Others as soon as
possible seek a pretext to avoid this feeling, to them oppressive. The
paying back of borrowed money, particularly, is regarded as a merit on
their part for which the creditor owes them lifelong gratitude.
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