The steps of life: further essays on happinessHilty, Karl
Philosophy
The steps of life: further essays on happiness
Hilty, Karl
Conduct of life; Happiness
In other respects, however, the difference between women and men would
not be so great if their education and especially their legal position
were more alike, and toward this the politics and pedagogy of to-day
are striving. Christianity at any rate makes no distinction, and even
the Old Testament already knows of women (even married ones) who
filled the highest state offices, not of hereditary right as to-day,
forsooth, but solely by virtue of their own worth, of the spirit which
dwelt within. The “spirit of God” can surely dwell in every human
being, and this is the thing that decides, and not the structure of the
body.
Women are in general more easy to understand than men. They deceive
no man for long, in the sense that he really holds the bad in them
for good, but only in the sense that he prefers the bad to the good
because of its sensual charm, in the false hope that this charm may be
a lasting and happy one. For women, therefore, there is surely but one
means of lastingly appearing to be something that they desire; and that
is, to be it. Yet it is harder, though by so much the more meritorious,
for them to be spiritual, good, and noble, since, instead of reaping
recognition for it, they are often obliged to see exactly the opposite
qualities valued and sought. A truly noble woman, therefore, stands on
a higher level of moral perfection than the best man.
Furthermore, what is generally true of humanity is especially
applicable to women, that those who have not experienced trouble, but
have only been fed upon the pleasures of life, remain superficial and
mediocre. With women the latter experience is found in even special
measure, because their whole present training, in the so-called
cultured circles, tends to give them the impression that a finer
enjoyment of life is the real aim of their existence.
From this conception of life there results a naïve and thoughtless
egotism which conceives the whole world to be only a beautiful meadow,
where the women have all the flowers to gather to adorn themselves with
and to please themselves with. In this egotism they often far surpass
men in selfishness; the more amiable outer side of this naïveté may not
blind us to this.
The character of women can very well be judged from their treatment of
flowers. A girl that on her walk pulls as many flowers as possible for
herself and has no desire to leave any behind for others has a tendency
to greediness and pleasure-seeking. A lady who, after looking at a
beautiful flower or bouquet for a short time, will permit it to lie and
wither, instead of putting it in water or of making some poor child
happy with it, has no warm heart. But if she pulls flowers quite to
pieces, she will some day no less unconcernedly deal with men who have
put their trust in her.
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