The Superstition of DivorceChesterton, G. K. (Gilbert Keith)
Religion
The Superstition of Divorce
Chesterton, G. K. (Gilbert Keith)
Divorce
not defend a voluntary association, but leaves the only claim on life,
death and loyalty with a more coercive institution. It does not stand,
in the sense I have tried to explain, for the principle of liberty. In
short, it does not do any of the things which Mr. Haynes himself would
especially desire to see done. For humanity to be thus spontaneously
organised from below, it is necessary that the organisation should be
almost as universal as the official organisation from above. The tyrant
must find not one family but many families defying his power; he must
find mankind not a dust of atoms, but fixed in solid blocks of fidelity.
And those human groups must support not only themselves but each other.
In this sense what some call individualism is as corporate as communism.
It is a thing of volunteers; but volunteers must be soldiers. It is a
defence of private persons; but we might say that the private persons
must be private soldiers. The family must be recognised as well as real;
above all, the family must be recognised by the families. To expect
individuals to suffer successfully for a home apart from the home, that
is for something which is an incident but not an institution, is really
a confusion between two ideas; it is a verbal sophistry almost in the
nature of a pun. Similarly, for instance, we cannot prove the moral
force of a peasantry by pointing to one peasant; we might almost as well
reveal the military force of infantry by pointing to one infant.
I take it, however, that the advocates of divorce do not mean that
marriage is to remain ideal only in the sense of being almost
impossible. They do not mean that a faithful husband is only to be
admired as a fanatic. The reasonable men among them do really mean that
a divorced person shall be tolerated as something unusually unfortunate,
not merely that a married person shall be admired as something unusually
blessed and inspired. But whatever they desire, it is as well that they
should realise exactly what they do; and in this case I should like to
hear their criticisms in the matter of what they see. They must surely
see that in England at present, as in many parts of America in the past,
the new liberty is being taken in the spirit of licence as if the
exception were to be the rule, or, rather, perhaps the absence of rule.
This will especially be made manifest if we consider that the effect of
the process is accumulative like a snowball, and returns on itself like
a snowball. The obvious effect of frivolous divorce will be frivolous
marriage. If people can be separated for no reason they will feel it
all the easier to be united for no reason. A man might quite clearly
foresee that a sensual infatuation would be fleeting, and console
himself with the knowledge that the connection could be equally
fleeting. There seems no particular reason why he should not elaborately
calculate that he could stand a particular lady’s temper for ten months;
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