The orator who, in a moment of national excitement, throws his visionary
dreams and interested lies broadcast into the press; the leader who, in
full consciousness of his abominable work, deceives the people; the
perjured politician who denies his convictions to attain promotion,
should all have their honour called in question. To such as these, as to
others, woman owes respect and obedience, without the option of
comparing her own honour, based on imperative duty, with that of these
empty talkers and tub-orators.
It is true that, on the other hand, a woman may, without censure, give
out that her dearest friend’s husband is making love to her--that she
may thus, by a word, destroy a home’s peace--without any pangs of
conscience, and without the man attacked being able to call her to
account.
In the relations between men and women some solution should be found by
which both may be placed on equal ground as regards morality and
responsibility. In this way loss of esteem between them would be
avoided, and the value of each enhanced.
But, to obtain such a result, tolerance and the principle of harmony
must first be taught; men must become less selfish, and women learn that
their life is not only a work of love but a work of reason. Social
rights must be equalised in the light of conscience and moral
responsibility. In fact, thorough sincerity must bring about loyalty
both in business and private affairs, creating a moral atmosphere in
which forgery, fraud, plagiarism, the lie that corrupts the soul of a
people, all the monstrous growths of our modern society, can no longer
exist. Then honesty, from being comparative, will become supreme,
incumbent equally upon man and woman, bound no longer only by social,
but by moral ties.
FRIENDSHIP
Friendship, taken in its strict sense, that is to say as affection
exempt from the attraction of the senses, plays an immense part in the
lives of men and women.
Friendship, as between men, is based on moral equality. The tie uniting
two minds and two hearts creates the same rights and the same duties for
each of the friends, no matter how different their degree of fortune and
rank in the world. Where friendship is, there is reciprocity. This is
what made La Boétie, Montaigne’s great friend, say: “Friendship is a
sacred name, it is a holy thing.... There can be no friendship where
there is cruelty, disloyalty, or injustice.... The wicked are not
friends, but accomplices.”
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