The tribes and castes of the North-Western Provinces and Oudh, Volume 1 (of 4)Crooke, William
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The tribes and castes of the North-Western Provinces and Oudh, Volume 1 (of 4)
Crooke, William
Caste -- India -- History; Hindus -- India; Tribes -- India -- History
[Marriage ceremonies.] 19. The following describes a marriage as
carried out in the Mirzapur District. When the match is settled the
father of the boy pays a visit to the girl’s father to make the final
preparations. Next follows the betrothal (sa’at), which is carried out
on a day fixed by the Pandit, who gets a fee of two annas. The father
of the boy goes to the house of the bride with the bride price already
described, pays it over, eats there, and returns next morning. Next
follows the matmangar or collection of the sacred earth, which is done
exactly as in the case of the Dravidian Bhuiyas, in the article on
which tribe the ritual is described. When the earth is brought back to
the house it is placed under the sacred water vessel (kalsa) near the
pole of siddh wood fixed up in the centre of the marriage shed. This
vessel is decorated with lumps of cowdung stuck in a line all round it,
and over these grains of barley are sprinkled. The mouth is filled with
mango leaves, and over them is placed an earthen saucer (kosa) full of
the sânwân millet or barley. When this is completed all the women
present are given some parched grain, which they receive in the part of
their sheet covering the breast.
20. When this is over the anointing (telhardi) of the bride and
bridegroom commences. This goes on every evening till the day before
the wedding (Bhatwân). Next morning the boy is bathed by the barber,
and the water is carefully kept for use in bathing the bride. The boy
is dressed in a yellow loin cloth and a red turban and coat, when his
mother takes him in her lap and five unmarried boys make him chew some
cakes folded up in mango leaves. Then he spits on the palm of his
mother’s hand and she licks it up, when the father and mother, with
their hands covered with a cloth so that no one may see them, grind
some urad pulse on the family curry stone (sil). This is made into
lumps and offered to the sainted dead of the household with the prayer
“Come and help us to bring the marriage to a successful issue!” Then
the boy gets into the litter, while his mother waves a pestle over his
head to drive off evil spirits. When the litter is raised the mother is
obliged to creep beneath it, and as she attempts to do so the Kahârs
put it down, and will not raise it until they receive a present. This
present is called pilâi or “a drink.” It is customary with them that
the procession should reach the house of the bride after nightfall, a
survival of marriage by capture. They then go to the house of the
headman of the village and present him with five chhatânks of betel-nut
and curd—a possible sign of the commutation of the jus prima noctis,
but more probably one of the ordinary dues taken by the village
landlord at marriages. They stay some time at his door and dance and
sing their own tribal song, the birha. Then they go to the reception
place (janwânsa), which is usually arranged under a tree near the
village.
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