The tribes and castes of the North-Western Provinces and Oudh, Volume 1 (of 4)Crooke, William
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The tribes and castes of the North-Western Provinces and Oudh, Volume 1 (of 4)
Crooke, William
Caste -- India -- History; Hindus -- India; Tribes -- India -- History
Then the bride’s barber appears and washes the feet of the
party, and a relative of the bride comes and feeds five boys of the
gotra of the bridegroom with him on curds and treacle. After this the
boy’s father sends to the bride the water in which the bridegroom had
been washed; in this she gets the marriage bath. This done the
bridegroom goes to the house of the bride, and is received at the door
by the mother of the bride, who waves over his head a piece of dough,
on which is laid a silver coin and a lighted lamp. This is the
parachhan ceremony, and is intended to scare away the evil spirits,
which are most to be dreaded at any crisis of life such as marriage.
Then the barber’s wife brings out the bride, who is seated on the thigh
of her father. The pair worship Gauri and Ganesa, of whom flour images
are made. The father then gives away his daughter in the regular
kanyâdân form, holding a bunch of kusa grass, water, and rice, in his
right hand. Then the bridegroom first performs the emblematical
marriage with the siddh tree forming the central pole of the marriage
shed, and he then marks the parting of the bride’s hair. The pair next
make five circuits round the siddh tree, and the ceremony ends with a
salute to the officiating Brâhman.
21. Next the bridegroom walks with the bride into the retiring room
(kohabar), an obvious survival of the custom still prevailing among
some of the Dravidian tribes, where consummation follows immediately on
the marriage ceremony. The sister-in-law of the bride attempts to
obstruct his passage, and he is obliged to carry in the bride by force.
The walls of the retiring room are decorated with rude drawings in red,
of elephants and horses. Over these the bridegroom is made to pour a
little butter. Then the women crack jokes with the boy. Pointing to a
rice pestle they say “That is your father! Salute him!” and taking up a
lamp they say, “That is your mother! Salute her!” On this he breaks the
lamp with the pestle. Then the knot joining the clothes of the pair is
opened and the boy returns to his own party.
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