The tribes and castes of the North-Western Provinces and Oudh, Volume 2 (of 4)Crooke, William
History
The tribes and castes of the North-Western Provinces and Oudh, Volume 2 (of 4)
Crooke, William
Caste -- India -- History; Hindus -- India; Tribes -- India -- History
[Beena marriage.] 10. Beena marriages by the custom known as gharjaiyân
or ghardamâda, when the bridegroom serves a period of probation for his
bride are usual. In such a case the son-in-law has no right of
inheriting from his father-in-law, but retains the right of inheritance
from the estate of his father.
[Succession.] 11. The sons are the sole heirs to the estate of their
father. Primogeniture is so far observed that while the children of all
wives share equally, the eldest son of the senior wife gets what is
called tikaiti, or one in excess of each thing—cattle, cooking vessels,
etc.; but if the father die in debt, this right ceases, and all the
sons have to contribute equally to discharge the debt. The father
during his lifetime cannot nominate one of his sons to get a share
superior to that of the others.
[Birth.] 12. There is no pregnancy ceremony. The mother is attended by
her husband’s sister (nanad), the Chamâr midwife not being employed.
The woman lies on the ground during parturition. A fire is lit in the
room in which she is secluded as soon as the labour pains commence. The
umbilical cord is merely severed and allowed to dry, when it is taken
out and buried in the jungle by the sister-in-law in attendance. The
cord retains some mystic significance. Thus a common phrase in quarrels
about land is kya tuhâr nâr e men gâral gayal—“was your cord buried
here that you claim this land?” The cord usually falls off; and is
buried on the third day after delivery. The day it falls off her
sister-in-law bathes the mother and child, who are again bathed on the
expiry of a month from the date of delivery. On that day the
sister-in-law cleans and replasters the delivery room (saur), and
receives from the child’s father a sheet (orhna), as her remuneration,
as well as a piece of cheap jewelry. On that day the mother is pure,
and cooks for the family and neighbours of the clan. The husband does
not again cohabit with his wife for two or three months after her
confinement. [101]
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