The Unadjusted Girl, With Cases and Standpoint for Behavior AnalysisThomas, William Isaac
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The Unadjusted Girl, With Cases and Standpoint for Behavior Analysis
Thomas, William Isaac
Female juvenile delinquents -- Case studies; Young women
4. THE DESIRE FOR RECOGNITION. This wish is expressed in the general
struggle of men for position in their social group, in devices for
securing a recognized, enviable, and advantageous social status. Among
girls’ dress is now perhaps the favorite means of securing distinction
and showing class. A Bohemian immigrant girl expressed her philosophy in
a word: “After all, life is mostly what you wear.” Veblen’s volume,
“Theory of the Leisure Class”, points out that the status of men is
established partly through the show of wealth made by their wives.
Distinction is sought also in connection with skillful and hazardous
activities, as in sports, war, and exploration. Playwriters and
sculptors consciously strive for public favor and “fame.” In the
“achievement” of Pasteur (case 6) and of similar scientific work there
is not only the pleasure of the “pursuit” itself, but the pleasure of
public recognition. Boasting, bullying, cruelty, tyranny, “the will to
power” have in them a sadistic element allied to the emotion of anger
and are efforts to compel a recognition of the personality. The frailty
of women, their illness, and even feigned illness, is often used as a
power-device, as well as a device to provoke response. On the other
hand, humility, self-sacrifice, saintliness, and martyrdom may lead to
distinction. The showy motives connected with the appeal for recognition
we define as “vanity”; the creative activities we call “ambition.”
The importance of recognition and status for the individual and for
society is very great. The individual not only wants them but he needs
them for the development of his personality. The lack of them and the
fear of never obtaining them are probably the main source of those
psychopathic disturbances which the Freudians treat as sexual in origin.
On the other hand society alone is able to confer status on the
individual and in seeking to obtain it he makes himself responsible to
society and is forced to regulate the expression of his wishes. His
dependence on public opinion is perhaps the strongest factor impelling
him to conform to the highest demands which society makes upon him.
20. The chief difference between the down-and-out man and the
down-and-out girl is this. The d.-a.-o. man sleeps on a park bench
and looks like a bum. The d.-a.-o. girl sleeps in an unpaid-for
furnished room and looks very respectable. The man spends what
little change he has—if he has any—for food and sleeps on a bench.
The girl spends what little change she has—if she has any—for a room
and goes without food.
Not because she has more pride than the man has. She hasn’t. But
because cops haul in girls who would sleep on benches, and
well-meaning organizations “rescue” girls who look down and out. A
pretty face and worn-out soles are a signal for those who would save
girls from the perilous path, whereas an anæmic face in a stylish
coat and a pair of polished French heels can go far unmolested....
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