The uncivilized races of men in all countries of the world; vol. 1 of 2: Being a comprehensive account of their manners and customs, and of their physical, social, mental, moral and religious characteristicsWood, J. G. (John George)
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The uncivilized races of men in all countries of the world; vol. 1 of 2: Being a comprehensive account of their manners and customs, and of their physical, social, mental, moral and religious characteristics
Wood, J. G. (John George)
Anthropology; Ethnology; Manners and customs
before they are hatched, but the Kaffir seems to perform that premature
calculation in more ways than one.
The reader will understand that these minute and complicated ceremonies
are not always observed in precisely the same manner. In many cases,
especially when the Kaffirs have lived for any length of time under
the protection of white men, there is very little, if any ceremony;
the chief rites being the arrangement with the girl’s owner or father,
the delivery of the cattle, and the transfer of the purchased girl to
the kraal of her husband. Moreover, it is very difficult for white
men to be present at Kaffir ceremonies, and in many cases the Kaffirs
will pretend that there is no ceremony at all, in order to put their
interrogators off the track. The foregoing account is, however, a
tolerably full description of the ceremonies that are, or have been,
practised by the great Zulu tribe.
A marriage thus made is considered quite as binding as any ceremony
among ourselves, and the Kaffir may not put away his wife except
for causes that are considered valid by the councillors of the
tribe. Infidelity is, of course, punished by instant dismissal of
the unfaithful wife, if not by her death, the latter fate invariably
befalling the erring wife of a chief. As for the other culprit,
the aggrieved husband has him at his mercy, and sometimes puts him
to death, but sometimes commutes that punishment for a heavy fine.
Constant and systematic disobedience is also accepted as a valid cause
of divorce, and so is incorrigible idleness. The process of reasoning
is, that the husband has bought the woman in order to perform certain
tasks for him. If she refuses to perform them through disobedience, or
omits to perform them through idleness, it is clear that he has paid
his money for a worthless article, and is therefore entitled to return
her on the hands of the vendor, and to receive back a fair proportion
of the sum which he has paid. Sometimes she thinks herself ill treated,
and betakes herself to the kraal of her father. In this case, the
father can keep her by paying back the cattle which he has received for
her; and if there should be any children, the husband retains them as
hostages until the cattle have been delivered. He then transfers them
to the mother, to whom they rightly belong.
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