The uncivilized races of men in all countries of the world; vol. 1 of 2: Being a comprehensive account of their manners and customs, and of their physical, social, mental, moral and religious characteristicsWood, J. G. (John George)
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The uncivilized races of men in all countries of the world; vol. 1 of 2: Being a comprehensive account of their manners and customs, and of their physical, social, mental, moral and religious characteristics
Wood, J. G. (John George)
Anthropology; Ethnology; Manners and customs
Another valid cause of divorce is the misfortune of a wife being
childless. The husband expects that she shall be a fruitful wife, and
that his children will add to his power and wealth; and if she does not
fulfil this expectation, he is entitled to a divorce. Generally, he
sends the wife to the kraal of her father, who propitiates the spirits
of her ancestors by the sacrifice of an ox, and begs them to remove the
cause of divorce. She then goes back to her husband, but if she should
still continue childless, she is sent back to her father, who is bound
to return the cattle which he has received for her. Sometimes, however,
a modification of this system is employed, and the father gives, in
addition to the wife, one of her unmarried sisters, who, it is hoped,
may better fulfil the wishes of the husband. The father would rather
follow this plan than consent to a divorce, because he then retains
the cattle, and to give up a single ox causes pangs of sorrow in a
Kaffir’s breast. Should the sister become a fruitful wife, one or two
of the children are transferred to the former wife, and ever afterward
considered as belonging to her house.
All these details remind the observer of similar details in the
Mosaic law of marriage, and, in point of fact, the social condition
of the Kaffir of the present day is not very different from that of
the Israelite when the Law was first promulgated through the great
legislator. Many of the customs are identical, and in others there is
a similitude that is almost startling. But, as far as the facility of
divorce goes, the Kaffir certainly seems to look upon marriage, even
though he may have an unlimited number of wives, with more reverence
than did the ancient Israelite, and he would not think of divorcing a
wife through a mere caprice of the moment, as was sanctioned by the
traditions of the Jews, though not by their divinely given law.
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