The unwelcome child : $b Or, The crime of an undesigned and undesired maternityWright, Henry Clarke
Philosophy
The unwelcome child : $b Or, The crime of an undesigned and undesired maternity
Wright, Henry Clarke
Abortion; Sexual ethics
“The strength and energy of body and mind which were required properly
to develop and give birth to _one_ child, have been often taxed to
conceive and develop six or eight, or perhaps ten or twelve. Would it
not be well to study economy in the function of Parentage, as well as
in some other departments of domestic life?
“There are few, very few, wives and mothers who could not reveal a
sad, dark picture in their own experience, in their relations to their
husbands and their children. Maternity, and the relation in which it
originates, are thrust upon them by their husbands, often without
regard to their spiritual or physical conditions, and often in
contempt of their earnest and urgent entreaties. No joy comes to their
hearts at the conception and birth of their children, except that
which arises from the consciousness that they have survived the
sufferings wantonly and selfishly inflicted on them.
“There are facts enough illustrating the dire effects of an undesigned
and an undesired maternity to move the whole earth to sorrow and
repentance, if woman, as a wife and mother, dared give utterance to
the wrongs inflicted upon her and her children. The living
illustrations of woman’s wrongs, inflicted on her in the holy of
holies of her home, by those who had promised to ‘love, cherish and
protect’ her, do now fill the earth. To the influences bearing on the
unborn babe, in consequence of the disregard, by the husband, of the
conditions and wishes of the wife in reference to maternity, and the
intercourse that leads to it, must we go to learn the causes of much
of the wrong and suffering of this world.”
When woman’s rights in regard to Maternity, and to the relation that
leads to it, are truly understood and appreciated by man, then, and not
before, can marriage become what it was designed to be,—a diadem of
beauty, a crown of glory, to the husband and wife, and “the power of God
and the wisdom of God” unto salvation to the generations of the future.
Husbands! if you would secure the loving respect of your wives, you must
reverently regard their protest against an undesired Maternity.
H. C. W.
LETTER III.
THE CRIME AGAINST THE CHILD.
DEAR FRIEND:
In my last, I showed, at some length, the crime of an undesired
maternity against the _mother_; how it affects her mind towards the
father of her child; how it tends to destroy all love and respect for
him, instead of increasing them; how it destroys her self-respect,
strips her of the conscious pride and dignity of a loved and loving
wife, and reduces her to the feeling and condition of a degraded,
self-condemned victim of legalized sensualism. She feels polluted,
degraded, outraged; and that, too, through the very function of her
nature, which should have filled and thrilled her soul with conscious
pride and happiness.
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