The unwelcome child : $b Or, The crime of an undesigned and undesired maternityWright, Henry Clarke
Philosophy
The unwelcome child : $b Or, The crime of an undesigned and undesired maternity
Wright, Henry Clarke
Abortion; Sexual ethics
THE CRIME AGAINST THE CHILD.—Allow me now to direct your attention to
this. Let the child of an undesigned and unwilling maternity arise
before your mind. Ponder what life is, and how it is affected by
birthright tendencies,—physical, intellectual and spiritual; see what a
struggle it is, at best, and how difficult it is for those of the
soundest bodies and healthiest souls, happily and successfully to meet
the conflict. Call to mind the two great facts alluded to in a former
letter, viz.: (1) That whatever comes to the child _before_ birth, must
come to it through the blood and organism of the mother. (2) That, as
this substance passes through her system, it must receive the impress of
her physical and mental conditions. Whatever _temporarily_ affects her
conditions, must _permanently_ affect the character and destiny of her
child.
You may grievously wrong your child, and subject it to physical and
mental tendencies that may deeply affect its character and happiness,
during its earthly existence, by subjecting it to the liability of
inheriting the unhealthy and imbecile conditions in which you and the
mother may be, at the time the relation was held in which it originated.
Mere sensual gratification was the sole and single motive that prompted
to the relation; and even in that, your wife had no part. Her heart, it
may be, not only prayed against conception, as a calamity more to be
dreaded than death, but this very horror of the consequences
disqualified her to participate in the relation, when it was entirely
mutual, and truly and rightly prompted. Her very soul shrank from it;
and she submitted to it merely to gratify you, or because she had been
taught to believe it a duty incumbent on all women who enter the married
relation,—a duty to which she _must_ submit, or be accounted a faithless
wife,—regardless of the wishes of her husband, and false to her
obligations as a wife.
Duty! Talk of _duty_ in such a relation! A _duty_ for a woman to submit
to such a relation, when her own soul not only does not sanction, but
loathes it! A _duty_ in a woman thus to lay her health, her
self-respect, and her very womanhood, on the altar of legalized
sensualism! A _duty_ to become a prostitute,—a mere tool of her
husband’s gratification! It is a horrid mockery! As well talk to her of
her _duty_ to cut her throat! No man, but a sensualist, could ever
accept the surrender of a woman’s person in such relation, when he knows
it is made without any call in her own nature, and merely to satisfy his
passion.
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