Until the beginning of this century men played the _beau rôle_ in life’s
comedy. As in the rest of the animal world, our males were the brilliant
members of the community, flaunting their gaudy plumage at home and
abroad, while the women-folk remained in seclusion, tending their
children, directing the servants, or ministering to their lords’ comfort.
In those happy days the husband ruled supreme at his own fireside,
receiving the homage of the family, who bent to his will and obeyed his
orders.
During the last century, however, the “part” of better half has become
less and less attractive in America, one prerogative after another having
been whisked away by enterprising wives. Modern Delilahs have yearly
snipped off more and more of Samson’s luxuriant curls, and added those
ornaments to their own _coiffures_, until in the majority of families the
husband finds himself reduced to a state of bondage compared with which
the biblical hero enjoyed a pampered idleness. Times have indeed changed
in America since the native chief sat in dignified repose bedizened with
all the finery at hand, while the ladies of the family waited tremblingly
upon him. To-day it is the American husband who turns the grindstone all
the year round, and it is his pretty tyrant who enjoys the elegant
leisure that a century ago was considered a masculine luxury.
To America must be given the credit of having produced the model husband,
a new species, as it were, of the _genus homo_.
In no rôle does a compatriot appear to such advantage as in that of
Benedict. As a boy he is often too advanced for his years or his
information; in youth he is conspicuous neither for his culture nor his
unselfishness. But once in matrimonial harness this untrained animal
becomes bridle-wise with surprising rapidity, and will for the rest of
life go through his paces, waltzing, kneeing, and saluting with hardly a
touch of the whip. Whether this is the result of superior
horse-womanship on the part of American wives or a trait peculiar to sons
of “Uncle Sam,” is hard to say, but the fact is self-evident to any
observer that our fair equestrians rarely meet with a rebellious mount.
Any one who has studied marital ways in other lands will realize that in
no country have the men effaced themselves so gracefully as with us. In
this respect no foreign production can compare for a moment with the
domestic article. In English, French, and German families the husband is
still all-powerful. The house is mounted, guests are asked, and the year
planned out to suit his occupations and pleasure. Here papa is rarely
consulted until such matters have been decided upon by the ladies, when
the head of the house is called in to sign the checks.
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