The Women of the ConfederacyUnderwood, J. L. (John Levi)
History
The Women of the Confederacy
Underwood, J. L. (John Levi)
United States -- History -- Civil War, 1861-1865 -- Anecdotes; Women -- Confederate States of America
South Georgia is to be congratulated that in the Confederate monument
recently unveiled at Cuthbert, the artist has at least given what is
sadly lacking in other Confederate monuments to private soldiers, the
genuine face of the Southern soldier, that face which is a just
compliment to the Confederate mother. The artists who cast some other
monuments in the South had seen too little of Southern people, and had
put on some of our monuments the pug nose and bullet head of other
people.
Our mothers and grandmothers lived mostly in the country, and drank in
a splendid vigor from the ozone of field, and forest, and mountain.
They were trained mostly at home by private teachers or in common
schools run on common sense principles, and in "the old-time
religion," without "isms," fanaticism, or cant. They were taught the
philosophy of life by fathers who thought and manners by mothers who
were the soul of inborn refinement. They thought for themselves, and
indulged no craze for things new, and they aped no foreigners. In
conversation they didn't end every sentence with the interrogation
point, but followed nature and let their voices fall at periods. They
never said "thanks," but in the good old English of Addison and
Goldsmith, said "I thank you." They never spoke of a sweetheart as "my
fellow," and would have scorned such a word as "mash." They never
walked "arm clutch," nor allowed Sunday newspapers to make five-cent
museums of their pictures. Their entertainments were famous for
elegance and pleasure, but they had no euchre-clubs. Indeed, we doubt
if many of them ever heard of a woman's club of any kind. They were
fond of "society," but would have had a profound contempt for that
so-called "society" of our day, in which the man is a prince who can
lead the german, spend money for bouquets and part his hair in the
middle. They didn't wear bloomers, nor did many of them ever dress
decolette. They were clothed and in their right mind. They never
mounted platforms to speak nor pulpits to preach, and yet their
influence and inspiration gave Southern pulpits and platforms a
world-wide fame. Their highest ambition was to be president of home.
They were Southern women everywhere, at home and abroad, in church and
on the streets, in parlor and kitchen, when they rode, when they
walked. Gentle, but brave; modest, but independent. Seeking no
recognition, the true Southern woman found it already won by her
worth; courting no attention, at every turn it met her, to do willing
homage to her native grace and genuine womanhood.
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