The Yale Literary Magazine (Vol. I, No. 2, March 1836) — John Shaqi
The Yale Literary Magazine (Vol. I, No. 2, March 1836)Various
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The Yale Literary Magazine (Vol. I, No. 2, March 1836)
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College students' writings, American -- Connecticut -- New Haven -- Periodicals; Yale University -- Periodicals
From the above, we detect another truth. There are in society, certain
little observances, which tend to regulate it—such as the forms of
etiquette; which observances, it is deemed can best be learned _in_
society. This we deem a very pernicious doctrine. It is reasoning from
wrong premises; and false _data_ in moral, assuredly bring about as
wrong deductions, as in physical science. The very object to be
attained, viz. the regulation of society, not only goes to show, that it
is something which is extraneous, but presupposes that it can never be
found there: and yet we are told, that politeness is the result of
social intercourse. But this we believe not. So far from it, we believe
that true politeness is _never_ learned there. Society is nothing but a
hot bed—what grows in it, is rank and unwholesome. True, there is a
something passing for politeness, very meaningless, and very stiff; but
it is, at the same time, so very shallow, that men of sense make no
pretensions to it: and _this_ is learned _in_ society. True politeness
is of another growth. It is the offspring of correct principle; and any
thing springing from such a source, we may not be much afraid of. True
politeness is nothing but a refined kind of humanity; and give a man a
kind heart, and one regulated by correct taste; and never fear, but he
has that which will make his way any where, to the utter exclusion of
these danglers on the skirts of good breeding. It is a sad thing, that
we have such an abundance of _manners_ in the world, and so little
_character_: that men think so little, they have mostly become frivolous
and superficial: that frivolous and superficial manners, best become
them. This is true however. We _have_ lost the substance, and taken the
shadow; and now, in groping for it, we have got a substitute, without
one of the virtues of its expatriated pre-occupant.
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