The Zincali: An Account of the Gypsies of SpainBorrow, George
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The Zincali: An Account of the Gypsies of Spain
Borrow, George
Romanies -- Languages; Romanies -- Spain
The festival endures three days, at the end of which the greatest part of
the property of the bridegroom, even if he were previously in easy
circumstances, has been wasted in this strange kind of riot and
dissipation. Paco, the Gypsy of Badajoz, attributed his ruin to the
extravagance of his marriage festival; and many other Gitános have
confessed the same thing of themselves. They said that throughout the
three days they appeared to be under the influence of infatuation, having
no other wish or thought but to make away with their substance; some have
gone so far as to cast money by handfuls into the street. Throughout the
three days all the doors are kept open, and all corners, whether Gypsies
or Busné, welcomed with a hospitality which knows no bounds.
In nothing do the Jews and Gitános more resemble each other than in their
marriages, and what is connected therewith. In both sects there is a
betrothment: amongst the Jews for seven, amongst the Gitános for a period
of two years. In both there is a wedding festival, which endures amongst
the Jews for fifteen and amongst the Gitános for three days, during
which, on both sides, much that is singular and barbarous occurs, which,
however, has perhaps its origin in antiquity the most remote. But the
wedding ceremonies of the Jews are far more complex and allegorical than
those of the Gypsies, a more simple people. The Nazarene gazes on these
ceremonies with mute astonishment; the washing of the bride—the painting
of the face of herself and her companions with chalk and carmine—her
ensconcing herself within the curtains of the bed with her female bevy,
whilst the bridegroom hides himself within his apartment with the youths
his companions—her envelopment in the white sheet, in which she appears
like a corse, the bridegroom’s going to sup with her, when he places
himself in the middle of the apartment with his eyes shut, and without
tasting a morsel. His going to the synagogue, and then repairing to
breakfast with the bride, where he practises the same self-denial—the
washing of the bridegroom’s plate and sending it after him, that he may
break his fast—the binding his hands behind him—his ransom paid by the
bride’s mother—the visit of the sages to the bridegroom—the mulct imposed
in case he repent—the killing of the bullock at the house of the
bridegroom—the present of meat and fowls, meal and spices, to the
bride—the gold and silver—that most imposing part of the ceremony, the
walking of the bride by torchlight to the house of her betrothed, her
eyes fixed in vacancy, whilst the youths of her kindred sing their wild
songs around her—the cup of milk and the spoon presented to her by the
bridegroom’s mother—the arrival of the sages in the morn—the reading of
the Ketuba—the night—the half-enjoyment—the old woman—the tantalising
knock at the door—and then the festival of fishes which concludes all,
and leaves the jaded and wearied couple to repose after a fortnight of
persecution.
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