Through These Eyes: The courageous struggle to find meaning in a life stressed with cancerIsaacson, Lauren Ann
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Through These Eyes: The courageous struggle to find meaning in a life stressed with cancer
Isaacson, Lauren Ann
Cancer -- Patients -- Biography; Isaacson, Lauren Ann, 1961-1986
Steve, my other neighborhood buddy, lived next door. We were much
closer in age than Mary and I, with our birthdays being only six months
apart. I spent quite a bit of time with him, though more so during the
summer months; we were in separate grades in school and that seemed to
make a slight difference in our friends. In grade school, more than
any other higher school of education one is more aware of age, somehow
relating that directly to one's social status; in effect, a person of
a higher grade should not be caught dead conversing with his younger
neighborhood friends, at least not at school.
Once apart from our peers, we were the greatest of friends. We often
sought out windfalls in the woods, which made terrific "camps," or
simply hiked along the creek bed. Names were bestowed upon various
landmarks according to their appearance; one drop-off was christened
"dead man's bluff" while a small grove of wild chives was called "the
onion field." There was a seemingly endless amount of diversion in the
woods and we used it to our best advantage.
It was Steve I chose to accompany me on family excursions to parks and
wildlife refuges; he was more game to tromp through the woods than were
many of my companions.
One of the attributes which gave Steve rare character was his flawless
honesty with respect to one's appearance or annoying habits. He would
as quickly inform a person of a rip in his garment as he would another
who was oblivious of the mucous running from his nose. If there was
something amiss that by most standards should be set aright, he would
see that it was done. Through Steve's keen insight and equally sharp
ability to verbalize these faults, I was made aware of the fact that I
walked "pigeon-toed" and soon corrected the matter through close
observation. Personally, I feel grateful to Steve. There is no crime
in voicing that which, with time or practice, can be overcome.
Some people who are quick to express the faults of others also lack
all tact and sensitivity. This was not so with Steve. In his
perceptiveness, he unquestionably found room for a great amount of
personal concern and interest. Perhaps the most touching instance in
which I witnessed this demonstration of care was when I was yet quite
young. We were playing outside on the Tarzan swing in my backyard,
when, without warning, a loud clap of thunder issued forth from the
gray sky. So completely taken by surprise was I that I began to cry.
It would have been so easy for him to mock my fright, but instead he
jumped up and headed for his house, yelling, "Wait here!" Several
minutes passed before he returned carrying a banana. He presented it
to me, saying, "This will cheer you up!" He was not aware that I truly
disliked bananas, but I was so touched by his show of affection that I
humbly ate the fruit and thanked him for his kindness. That little
episode of human kindness shall forever remain dear to me. It also
altered somewhat my view of bananas.
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
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