There is another marriage law that is termed among the Indians as,
“half married.” The prospective husband gives but a small sum of
articles, of little value, and receives in return a few articles of
little value. In this marriage the husband is taken to the wife’s home
to live, or in the same house with her parents, and the wife, in this
marriage, is the head of the household and the husband is compelled
to obey her in whatever she commands him to do. He is compelled to
fish, hunt, work and support her folks just as much as he supports his
wife, while the wife teaches the children and rules them absolutely,
as the husband has no right to correct his own children or make them
mind in any way. When these children become men and women they must
marry according to their mother’s wishes, as the husband has nothing
to say as to their conduct, or pursuits of happiness in life. However
unpleasant it may seem to him, he must bear it all with patience and
silence. If he refuses to obey his wife and children, she can make his
surroundings in home life very unpleasant for him, and if he wishes to
dissolve the marriage vows and she is willing, he has nothing to do but
to walk out of the house, as his wife guides the children and rules
the household, and owns everything that belongs to him, except his own
individual life, even his own children acknowledge him as their father
in flesh and blood, but no more.
There is a slave marriage where, they being absolute paupers, having no
home of their own and no articles to exchange in the marriage ceremony,
they are married by the exchange of food-stuffs, and this is considered
to be the lowest marriage that could be called a marriage. When they
have a divorce they do not have much trouble in separating as articles
are given back by their masters and a settlement is usually made easy.
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