Virginibus Puerisque, and Other PapersStevenson, Robert Louis
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Virginibus Puerisque, and Other Papers
Stevenson, Robert Louis
Essays
Truth of intercourse is something more difficult than to refrain from
open lies. It is possible to avoid falsehood and yet not tell the truth.
It is not enough to answer formal questions. To reach the truth by yea
and nay communications implies a questioner with a share of inspiration,
such as is often found in mutual love. _Yea_ and _nay_ mean nothing; the
meaning must have been related in the question. Many words are often
necessary to convey a very simple statement; for in this sort of exercise
we never hit the gold; the most that we can hope is by many arrows, more
or less far off on different sides, to indicate, in the course of time,
for what target we are aiming, and after an hour’s talk, back and
forward, to convey the purport of a single principle or a single thought.
And yet while the curt, pithy speaker misses the point entirely, a wordy,
prolegomenous babbler will often add three new offences in the process of
excusing one. It is really a most delicate affair. The world was made
before the English language, and seemingly upon a different design.
Suppose we held our converse not in words, but in music; those who have a
bad ear would find themselves cut off from all near commerce, and no
better than foreigners in this big world. But we do not consider how
many have “a bad ear” for words, nor how often the most eloquent find
nothing to reply. I hate questioners and questions; there are so few
that can be spoken to without a lie. “_Do you forgive me_?” Madam and
sweetheart, so far as I have gone in life I have never yet been able to
discover what forgiveness means. “_Is it still the same between us_?”
Why, how can it be? It is eternally different; and yet you are still the
friend of my heart. “_Do you understand me_?” God knows; I should think
it highly improbable.
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