In a perfect world, every sentient being would be to every other the
object of the fullest love, compounded of delight, benevolence, and
understanding inextricably blended. It does not follow that, in this
actual world, we ought to attempt to have such feelings towards all the
sentient beings whom we encounter. There are many in whom we cannot
feel delight, because they are disgusting; if we were to do violence
to our nature by trying to see beauties in them, we should merely
blunt our susceptibilities to what we naturally find beautiful. Not
to mention human beings, there are fleas and bugs and lice. We should
have to be as hard pressed as the Ancient Mariner before we could feel
delight in contemplating these creatures. Some saints, it is true, have
called them “pearls of God,” but what these men delighted in was the
opportunity of displaying their own sanctity.
Benevolence is easier to extend widely, but even benevolence has its
limits. If a man wished to marry a lady, we should not think the better
of him for withdrawing if he found that some one else also wished to
marry her: we should regard this as a fair field for competition. Yet
his feelings towards a rival cannot be _wholly_ benevolent. I think
that in all descriptions of the good life here on earth we must assume
a certain basis of animal vitality and animal instinct; without this,
life becomes tame and uninteresting. Civilization should be something
added to this, not substituted for it; the ascetic saint and the
detached sage fail in this respect to be complete human beings. A small
number of them may enrich a community; but a world composed of them
would die of boredom.
These considerations lead to a certain emphasis on the element of
delight as an ingredient in the best love. Delight, in this actual
world, is unavoidably selective, and prevents us from having the same
feelings towards all mankind. When conflicts arise between delight and
benevolence, they must, as a rule, be decided by a compromise, not by
a complete surrender of either. Instinct has its rights, and if we
do violence to it beyond a point it takes vengeance in subtle ways.
Therefore in aiming at a good life the limits of human possibility
must be borne in mind. Here again, however, we are brought back to the
necessity of knowledge.
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