China -- Social life and customs -- 1644-1912; Lee, Yan Phou, 1861-1938?
Many a quarrel did we have as points of dispute came up; and often one
of our set would not speak to another, or would even cut the whole of
us for days together on account of some unfair play. Those little tiffs
seemed to be of momentous importance then. But the boy whose heart
swells with indignation at that which offends his sense of justice is
likely to grow up a true man after all.
But our chief amusement and delight was to hear stories; especially
those about fairies and ghosts. Oh! the blood-curdling stories that
we were privileged to hear. They were enough to set anybody’s teeth
a-chattering and to stand his hair on end. They were always told in a
low, sepulchral tone of voice, and the lamps were turned down, which
very much heightened the artistic effect. We were also entertained with
healthful anecdotes, such as scraps of history or biographical sketches
of China’s great men and famous women. But when we coaxed “real hard,”
we could generally get some one to tell us stories of goblins, imps
that haunted the forests, spectres that dwelt in old coffins, and
witches and fairies that were good to those who pleased them. After
listening to a glowing account of their antics and deeds, good or
mischievous, it was useless to attempt making me go to bed alone or
without a light. Even when some one accompanied me with a light, I
never felt safe until I had covered my head with the bedclothes. That
superstitious dread haunts me yet, especially when walking alone in the
dark. I think it is impossible that I shall ever outgrow it.
When between six and eight years of age, my girl-cousins took that
step which affected all their after-lives. At that age all well-born
Chinese misses have their feet bound. It is a fashion they are obliged
to follow. If they should not, they would not be recognized as ladies
when they grow up, and they would become a disgrace to their families.
Chinese aristocrats are as proud and jealous of their good name as the
bluest-blooded of European nobles. Anything that lowers them in the
eyes of their neighbors is carefully guarded against. Accordingly,
only the daughters of poor and humble parents are permitted by society
to retain the feet as nature bestowed them.
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