When You Don't Know Where to Turn: A Self-Diagnosing Guide to Counseling and TherapyBartlett, Steven J.
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When You Don't Know Where to Turn: A Self-Diagnosing Guide to Counseling and Therapy
Bartlett, Steven J.
Consumer education; Counseling; Psychotherapy
There can be little doubt that society is unbalanced in legitimating
physical sickness while reacting with alarm and repugnance to problems
of a psychological nature. Think of the discrimination _against_
psychological disorders, in favor of physical complaints, practiced
openly by nearly all health insurance companies, offering reduced
benefits for mental health. Psychological pain does not hurt any less
because it is emotionally based. Even so, emotional distress is held
suspect, and insurance coverage for it, if not ruled out completely, is
frequently only partial. It was, after all, not more than a century
ago that our mental hospitals were run with an inhumanity that {15}
still can send shivers down one's spine. Unhappily, it is clear that
we have not entirely left this phase of our development: the film _One
Flew over the Cuckoo's Nest_, for example, points to continuing
inhumanity in some psychiatric hospitals. And there is the alleged
case of a Ukrainian woman who was involuntarily committed and held for
some thirty years in a mental hospital. She was thought to be insane
because, unfortunately, no one involved in her case recognized her
"gibberish" as Ukrainian!
Emotional and mental problems are still not accepted by many. There is
a fear of the unknown and a skepticism that psychological problems are
nothing more than signs that a person is malingering, simply does not
want to try to get better. And there is a gut-level anxiety when
confronted by someone who, we worry, "may be close to going over the
edge."
TEARING DOWN PRISON WALLS
What undue hardship this causes! As wonderful as the body is, we
accept its imperfections, its susceptibility to disease and injury.
But our brains, our minds, our spiritual dimension--how less well we
understand these in their greater complexity! Is it so strange and
unacceptable that they should be prone to their own problems, that
they, too, may bring suffering?
Because society does not legitimate emotional pain, many people are not
able to see their own pain as legitimate. So they deny it, to
themselves and to others. But pain is usually a healthy signal; it
tells you that something is wrong: Withdraw your hand from the fire!
Move your cramping legs! Do something about your abusive, alcoholic
husband! Get help for your depression!
Every one of these pains is a warning. To ignore all except those that
are physical would be like saying that we are only bodies, without
feelings, without humanity.
When you are in pain, whatever its source and kind, pay attention to
it! Pain is often what points to a better life.
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
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