English poetry -- 19th century; Women -- History; Women -- Social conditions; Women -- Suffrage
“These sacred rights of the father were, it will be observed, in the
eyes of the law so _exclusive_ and paramount as to justify and demand
the refusal to a young girl, at the most critical period of early
womanhood, of the solace of a few weeks’ intercourse with a blameless
and beloved mother; and this although the gratification of the
daughter’s wish would have involved no denial to the father of the
solace of his daughter’s company, since she was not actually, but only
_legally_, in his custody, not having seen him for more than a year.
“It will be seen from this that the father alone has the absolute
legal right to deal with his child or children, to the extent of
separating them, at his own sole pleasure, from their mother, and of
giving them into the care and custody of any person whom he may think
fit. The mother has, as such, no legal status, no choice, voice, lot,
or part in the matter.”—Mrs. Wolstenholme Elmy (“The Infants’ Act,
1886,” p. 2).
It is consolatory to learn that a palliation of some part of the above
unjust conditions has been achieved; yet how often has our presumedly
happy land witnessed scenes of child misery and helpless mother-love, to
which was denied even the poor consolation, so pathetically depicted by
Mrs. Browning, in a scene which, as Moir truly says, “weighs on the
heart like a nightmare”;—
“Do you hear the children weeping, oh! my brothers!
Ere the sorrow comes with years?
They are leaning their young heads against their mothers,
And _that_ cannot stop their tears.”
XVI.
4.—“... _single basis_ ...”
First written “disproportioned basis,” but altered, with good reason, in
the face of Mr. Herbert Spencer’s arrogant male thesis:—“Only that
mental energy is normally feminine which can co-exist with the
production and nursing of the due (!) number of healthy
children.”—(“Study of Sociology,” Chap. XV., note 5.)
But Professor Huxley speaks, more humanly, of “... such a peasant woman
as one sees in the Alps, striding ever upward, heavily burdened, and
with mind bent only on her home; but yet, without effort and without
thought, knitting for her children. Now stockings are good and
comfortable things, and the children will undoubtedly be much the better
for them, but surely it would be short-sighted, to say the least of it,
to depreciate this toiling mother as a mere stocking-machine—a mere
provider of physical comforts.”—(“On Improving Natural Knowledge.”)
Yet, if it be—as truly it is—a senseless and disgraceful depreciation of
woman to look upon her as “a mere machine for the making of stockings,”
is it not equally unworthy and unwise to consider her as—primarily and
essentially—a mere machine for the making of a “due” number of
stocking-wearers?
5.—“... _quicker fire_.”
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