English poetry -- 19th century; Women -- History; Women -- Social conditions; Women -- Suffrage
“Apart from the pressure of population, it is time to be learning (1)
That the annual child-bearing still so common, is cruelly exhaustive to
the maternal life, and this often in actual duration as well as quality;
(2) That it is similarly injurious to the standard of offspring; and
hence, (3) That an interval of two clear years between births (some
gynæcologists even go as far as three) is due alike to mother and
offspring.” (It is to be noted that this period of three years is
postulated as a necessity for the well-being of the offspring; it is by
no means a recommendation to even a triennial maternity on the part of
the mother, who is indeed to be, in all fulness, “free mistress of her
person’s sacred plan,” with a duty to herself, as well as to her child).
“It is time, therefore, as we heard a brave parson tell his flock
lately, ‘to have done with that blasphemous whining which constantly
tries to look at a motherless’ (ay, or sometimes even fatherless) ‘crowd
of puny infants as a dispensation of mysterious providence.’ Let us
frankly face the biological facts, and admit that such cases usually
illustrate only the extreme organic nemesis of intemperance and
improvidence, and these of a kind far more reprehensible than those
actions to which common custom applies the names, since they are
species-regarding vices, and not merely self-regarding ones, as the
others at least primarily are....
“It seems to us, however, essential to recognise that the ideal to be
sought after is not merely a controlled rate of increase, but regulated
married lives.... We would urge, in fact, the necessity of an ethical
rather than of a mechanical ‘prudence after marriage,’ of a temperance
recognised to be as binding on husband and wife as chastity on the
unmarried.... Just as we would protest against the dictum of false
physicians who preach indulgence rather than restraint, so we must
protest against regarding artificial means of preventing fertilisation
as adequate solutions of sexual responsibility. After all, the solution
is primarily one of temperance. It is no new nor unattainable ideal to
retain, throughout married life, a large measure of that self-control
which must always form the organic basis of the enthusiasm and idealism
of lovers.”—Geddes and Thomson (“The Evolution of Sex,” Chap. XX.).
As a fitting exemplification of the words of the “parson” above
narrated, compare the following verbatim extract from a conversation
in this year of grace 1892. The —— referred to is a man about 35,
middle-class, and of “good ‘education’” (!) The same description would
also apply to the speaker, who said, “Poor —— is a brave fellow, and
keeps up his head in the worst of luck. He has a lot of home troubles;
he has lost three children, and his wife always has a bad time at the
birth of each baby.”
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
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