English poetry -- 19th century; Women -- History; Women -- Social conditions; Women -- Suffrage
No word of sympathy for the wife and mother, or even of recognition
that it was really _she_ who bore the pain at each “bad time.” As the
children left alive still numbered two at the time of the speech, the
whole incident can but imply—on the part of both actor and speaker—the
hideous, even if unconscious, inhumanity so widely prevalent. Never
will “high-born breed” be attained till such action of low-bred
intellect is reprobated and amended; in accordance with the enunciated
truth, that:—
“Especially in higher organisms, a distinction must obviously be drawn
between the period at which it is possible for males and females to
unite in fertile sexual union, and the period at which such union will
naturally occur or will result in the fittest offspring.”—Geddes and
Thomson (_op. cit._, p. 243).
7, 8.—“_Not overworn with childward pain and care,
The mother—and the race—robuster health shall share_.”
“It is not the true purpose of any intellectual organism to live solely
to give birth to succeeding organisms; its duty is also to live for its
own happiness and well-being. Indeed, in so doing, it will be acting in
one of the most certain ways to ensure that faculty and possession of
happiness that it aims to secure for its progeny.”—Ben Elmy (“Studies in
Materialism,” Chap. III.).
_Id._... Even the placid and precisian American poet bears strong, if
involuntary, testimony to the evil and wrong of the non-cultured and
untempered begetting of children:—
“She wedded a man unlearned and poor,
And many children played round her door;
But care and sorrow, and child-birth pain
Left their traces on heart and brain.”
—Whittier (“Maud Müller”).
_Id._... Mr. Andrew Lang also promises us “a world that is glad and
clean, and not overthronged and not overdriven.”—(Introduction to
“Elizabethan Songs.”)
_Id._... “_Justice never loses sight of self._... The language of
Justice is ‘to Me and to You; or to You and to Me.’ ... We have to
learn, for the action and spirit worthy of the coming time, that woman
is never to sacrifice herself to a man, but, when needful, to the
_Manhood_ she hopes or desires to develop in him. In this she will also
attain her own development. But after the hour when her faith in the
hope of worthy results fails her (reason instructing her nobler
affections by holding candidly in view all the premises, past, present,
and future), she is bound by all her higher obligations to bring that
career, whether it be of the daughter, sister, mother, wife, or friend,
to a close. For the inferior cannot possibly be worth the sacrifice of
the superior. True self-sacrifice, which necessarily involves the
temporary descent of the nobler to the less noble—the higher to the
lower—is made only when the lower is elevated, improved, carried forward
in its career, thereby.”—Eliza W. Farnham (“Woman and Her Era,” Vol.
II., p. 149).
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