The changes were rung on this theme in all races and languages.
The esthetic Greeks surpassed the Jews in their denunciations, and
exhausted their wit in cynical phrases that lacked even the dignity of
criticism. No writers have abused women more persistently. It is an
evidence of great moral vitality that, in the face of such undisguised
contempt, they were able to maintain any prestige at all. If we may
credit the poets who gave the realistic side of things, there was
neither honor nor joy in the life of the average woman who dwelt in the
shadow of Helicon. It was bare and cheerless, without even the sympathy
that tempers the hardest fate. This pastoral existence, which seems
so serene, had its serpent, and that serpent was a woman. A wife was
a necessary evil. If a man did not marry, he was doomed to a desolate
age; if he did, his happiness was sure to be ruined. Out of ten types
of women described by the elder Simonides, only one was fit for a wife,
and this was because she had the nature of a bee and was likely to add
to her husband’s fortune. As the proportion was so small, the risk may
be imagined. Her side of the question was never taken into account
at all. The comfort of so insignificant a being was really not worth
considering. “A man has but two pleasant days with his wife,” says the
satirist; “one when he marries her, the other when he buries her.”
Hesiod mentions, among the troubles of having a wife, that she insists
upon sitting at table with her husband. Later, when the Greeks found
their pleasure in fields of the intellect which were closed to women,
even this poor privilege was usually denied her, and always when other
men were present. Hesiod was evidently a disappointed man, and took
dark views of things, women in particular, but he only followed the
fashion of his time in making them responsible for the troubles and
sorrows of men. It was the old, old story: “The woman gave me, and I
did eat.” She was the Pandora who had let loose upon the world all the
ills, and kept in her box the hope that might have made them tolerable.
If she found her position an unpleasant one, she had the consolation
of being told that she was one of the evils sent into the world by the
gods, to punish men for the sin of Prometheus. The other was disease.
This is a sorry picture, but it reflects the usual Greek attitude
toward women, and cannot be ignored, much as we should like to honor
the sense of justice, and the heart as well as the intellect of men of
so brilliant a race.
II
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