Woman—through a man's eyeglassSalaman, Malcolm C. (Malcolm Charles)
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Woman—through a man's eyeglass
Salaman, Malcolm C. (Malcolm Charles)
Single women; Wives -- Anecdotes; Women -- Anecdotes; Women -- Social and moral questions
I am absolutely certain that my father—God bless him!—would bear me
out in this, after all his forty odd years of wedded life, and I can
confidently count upon the confirmatory evidence of my brothers and
sisters. Never have we or my father had the slightest reason to be
jealous of one another on account of my mother’s attention to the
other. She has the most marvellous power of dividing her devotion
equally between her husband and her children, and this supremely
womanly virtue has enabled her always to preserve an equilibrium of
happiness between her husband, her children, and herself. It makes
me so angry to hear cynics sneering at the possibility of enduring
happiness in married life, when I think of my father and mother sitting
together in their old age as cheerfully as when the romance of life
was still fresh for them, and urging folks to matrimony because it is
the happier state. To see him at his piano, pouring out in melodious
reverie the emotions that are ever fresh in him, while she sits close
by in her armchair, revelling in love stories that would set the hearts
of romantic schoolgirls aflame, is, I think, one of the most beautiful
sights in the world, and it makes one feel that a burden of seventy or
eighty years may be borne lightly and easily if only love be there to
keep the heart young.
In childhood one’s mother seems always such a distance off in the
matter of age, but when one has reached middle life, and the wheels of
existence need oiling with the encouragement of affection, one’s mother
comes nearer, and seems younger and less sophisticated than ourselves.
For instance, to-day I feel a kind of Methuselah, and, as I think of
my mother and all her little ways, I can scarcely believe that she is
so much older than I. I think of her now as she was when we were all
children; I recall the fairy stories she used to tell us to keep us
good and quiet, while my father was busily occupied with his music, and
quiet was absolutely necessary for him to produce work that satisfied
him. So did she maintain a practical sympathy with his pursuits, while
she rejoiced our young minds. So has she ever been; in sickness or in
health she has never sacrificed her husband or her children for each
other, but considered them equally.
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