Woman—through a man's eyeglassSalaman, Malcolm C. (Malcolm Charles)
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Woman—through a man's eyeglass
Salaman, Malcolm C. (Malcolm Charles)
Single women; Wives -- Anecdotes; Women -- Anecdotes; Women -- Social and moral questions
I remember once when I was seriously ill, and my father was taken ill
at the same time, how she would spend her whole time equally between
the two sickrooms, yet never allow either to feel the slightest want.
Most devoted and skilful of sick nurses, her gentle cheerfulness, her
little touches of humour, especially when there is any noxious physic
to be swallowed, and her undemonstrative sympathy, make her presence by
the invalid couch a sweet restorative in itself. How many weary hours
of illness has she solaced for me, from childhood to manhood! One says
confidently to the woman one loves that life without her would be empty
and unbearable; and it is a beautiful dispensation that the emotion of
love can make one feel this. But let the man who has known a mother’s
devotion through life, imagine what it would mean to be rett of that.
_I_ dare not, and why should I? My mother is as young a woman for her
seventy-five years as you would wish to meet, and as her grandchildren
come, she seems to grow younger for her joy of them. For she loves
children, and understands them, and she knows how to win their love and
make them happy. I do not believe there was ever so scientifically
sympathetic a tender of babies as my mother. She seems to divine their
dumb eloquence, and know exactly what they feel and want to express.
My mother is brimming over with humanity, and her indignation is easily
aroused by anything approaching to injustice. She cannot sit quietly
in a theatre during the performance of a play wherein children are
ill-treated, but must loudly give vent to her indignation. If she
sees two boys fighting in the street, she will promptly push her way
through the encouraging crowd, and threaten to “call a policeman” if
they do not desist; and if she comes across a woman who is chastising a
naughty child, or a man who is correcting an obstreperous animal, she
will not hesitate to stop and “give it to them well,” as she calls the
delivering of a reprimand. She is actively compassionate towards all
suffering, sympathetic with all sorrow, and pityingly tolerant of any
error arising from that ignorance which is the heritage of poverty or
the disadvantages of birth. But, on the other hand, she is aggressively
intolerant of all cant and its consequences; she is a sworn foe to
humbug in any shape or form, and candour is personified in her
attitude towards all men and all women.
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