Woman—through a man's eyeglassSalaman, Malcolm C. (Malcolm Charles)
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Woman—through a man's eyeglass
Salaman, Malcolm C. (Malcolm Charles)
Single women; Wives -- Anecdotes; Women -- Anecdotes; Women -- Social and moral questions
But, after all, what is to be Miss Singleton’s ultimate aim in
life? She cannot fill her whole existence with dances, tennis, and
flirtations, for time will have something serious to say on that
subject. Say she is five-and-thirty now; in another five years she
will have leisure from her present pastimes to realise her want of new
interests. She may not personally feel that age is creeping on apace,
but she will be made sensible of the fact by all kinds of external
signs. She will find that, though the marriages of her brothers and
sisters, and other contemporaries of her girlhood, at first made
little difference in their attitude towards her, the increasing and
growing-up of their families make a very great difference, and,
naturally, the interest that is taken in herself must under these
conditions become gradually lessened. A new generation of girls will
have ousted her from the arena of flirtation, for the spinster of forty
stands but little chance against the girl of twenty, though her wit be
twenty times as great, and her charms be all the more telling for long
practice. And then her interests will become narrower as her field of
interest is reduced in dimensions by the encroachments of time and its
consequences, until an utter sense of loneliness and uncaredforness
sets in, and then—God help her!
But I would let Miss Singleton’s story point a moral for all spinsters.
Because one man gave her a bitter draught to swallow, she allowed
herself to believe, until too late, that there was no more sweetness in
the world; because one man proved false, she withdrew her faith from
all men; and so she has missed the blessings of domestic love, the
wife’s happiness, the mother’s joys, and so some good man has missed a
good wife.
_THE INDIVIDUAL WOMAN_
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