Woman—through a man's eyeglassSalaman, Malcolm C. (Malcolm Charles)
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Woman—through a man's eyeglass
Salaman, Malcolm C. (Malcolm Charles)
Single women; Wives -- Anecdotes; Women -- Anecdotes; Women -- Social and moral questions
Miss Strongith’will believes in herself and has the courage of her
individuality. She is no advertising advocate of Woman’s Rights, as
spelt with a capital W and a capital R; but she quietly asserts the
right of woman to live her own life, to mould her own mind, to shape
her own destiny, on equal terms with man, but in her own womanly way.
She does not proclaim aloud from a platform that she has a mission; she
makes no attempt at public philanthropy, and works among no paupers;
she does not wear a divided skirt and ride far afield for notoriety;
she does not lecture at learned societies; nor does she run about
the world looking at loathsome diseases, and wheedling guileless
journalists into writing her down a heroine. She is simply a woman who
believes that woman’s life can be quite complete without man, and she
acts up to that belief by trying to make her own life self-contained
and independent. To Miss Strongith’will the mere fact of being
married or not is an extraneous circumstance, a matter of accident,
opportunity, or inclination, which has nothing to do with a woman’s
individualism. She can assert her own entity, whether she has a husband
or not. At least, this is Miss Strongith’will’s theory, and she does
not pretend to belong to the profession of strong-minded women. She has
no sympathy with them; to her they are an impertinence, not because
their minds happen to be strong, or perhaps unfeminine, but because
they label themselves, and profess to despise any other brand.
Miss Strongith’will is the eldest of a large family; her parents
are well provided with the means of life, their social position is
such that the most refined and cultured society is open to them,
and they have seen the wisdom and justice of giving their children
the advantages of excellent education. In fact, the surroundings of
Miss Strongith’will’s life have been in every way conducive to the
cultivation of her individuality. She has enjoyed the friendship of men
and women of culture, and has had the advantage of contrasting them
with the commonplace and the uncultured. She has had the invaluable
opportunity of travelling in foreign countries not merely holiday
scampers through Continental towns, but sojourns for months at a time
in the very centres of the social, artistic, and intellectual life of
several countries, into which she has been admitted on intimate terms.
She has thus learnt to regard the world in a cosmopolitan spirit, to
look upon life in a large way. She has been forced to think for herself
by the very eclecticism of her training, but this very cosmopolitanism,
while enlarging her mind, has narrowed her heart to individuals. It has
made her difficult to please, and impatient of any attempt to coerce
her affections. It has deprived her of a husband.
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