Woman—through a man's eyeglassSalaman, Malcolm C. (Malcolm Charles)
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Woman—through a man's eyeglass
Salaman, Malcolm C. (Malcolm Charles)
Single women; Wives -- Anecdotes; Women -- Anecdotes; Women -- Social and moral questions
Some people mysteriously inspire confidences, and Mrs. Meanwell has
always done so, and even more now that she is a woman-of-the-world
than when she was an unsophisticated school-girl. She has an amazing
gift of dissimulation, which would be invaluable to an actress or a
diplomatist, but which is of immense aid in cultivating that reputation
for sympathy which is essential to the vocation of a “dearest friend.”
She is able absolutely to absorb herself—to all outward appearance—in
conversation with the person who is her companion for the time being,
to seem to be interested in nothing else in the world beyond the topic
of their talk, while all the time, perhaps, she is really calculating
the favourable impression she has made upon the other person, and
deciding how uncongenial that other is to her. But her stock of gossip
and her range of personal experience have increased the while, as her
sympathetic influence has widened. She has prepared the way to be
“dearest friend” to her recent companion, if she chose, and though she
may have no desire for this, she is content with the sense of her power.
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I have often watched Mrs. Meanwell with infinite curiosity and
amusement, and seen her, within brief periods, receiving the voluminous
confidences of two women I knew to be jealous foes, and I have wondered
how she was able to maintain such intimate and seemingly affectionate
relations with both. But the secret lies in her pliable temperament,
which she can temporarily assimilate to the idiosyncrasies of any
person with whom she comes in contact. I have seen her apparently
interested by men and women from whose tedious society I would commit
almost any enormity to escape, and, I must say, from a philanthropic
point of view, I have admired Mrs. Meanwell for this comprehensive
amiability which could rescue these people from the awful consequences
of their own boredom. I have admired it in the same way that I admire
women who nurse the sick and solace the afflicted. She is a kind of
Florence Nightingale among the dull and the bored, and a beautiful
beneficence is hers—mentally cheering those who through their own
inherent dulness cannot possibly cheer themselves. But, just as you
hear hospital nurses and workers in the slums say they actually love
their work, so does Mrs. Meanwell really find amusement even among
the bores. She is, of course, fond of hearing herself talk—who is not
that has anything to say?—and she certainly glories in extending her
popularity.
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