Womanhood : $b The facts of life revealed to womenGoddard, Gloria
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Womanhood : $b The facts of life revealed to women
Goddard, Gloria
Married women -- Psychology; Women -- Social and moral questions
_Sexual Morality, Present and Future._—The keynote of the new sexual
morality is freedom on both sides. This means, first, freedom from
financial considerations. Love is a deep-rooted instinct, whose fruition
means years or a lifetime of happiness or unhappiness for the individuals
concerned, and the creation, of the men and women of the future. None
of these are purchasable commodities. A man cannot buy a woman’s love,
nor a child of his own breeding to do him honor; neither can either sex
sell these delights. But, in point of fact, this is just what is done in
many cases today, and is what was the common procedure of fifty years
ago. Under the dying regime, a woman had to marry for the best home and
support she could get. There was no other way open to her to obtain these
things. A man knew he could have the best of women for his wife, if he
could pay the price of her support. If a man was poor, he must accept
accordingly. Men bought women to live with and to mother their children;
women traded their loveliness for comfort and ease. Neither could buy
love, and neither ever found it, unless the man found it in his mistress.
But even then, under this ancient order, a man’s mistress looked with
fonder eyes upon his checkbook than upon his face. Why men chose this
beastly course is more than inexplicable, but they did, and it was
entirely of their own making.
Women have a different idea on the subject. They have felt the horror
of the man-made way, and have struggled to end it. They have seen that
the first step toward any equality was to gain economic equality, and
they have wisely fought for that first. Now, they have just achieved it.
Woman, as a class, has achieved financial equality with man. This leaves
them free to set love, and love alone, as a standard of choice for a
mate. The result cannot fail to be wholesomely uplifting to the entire
race. Love is gradually coming to be experienced for love only, and not
for money.
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