Womanhood : $b The facts of life revealed to women — John Shaqi
Womanhood : $b The facts of life revealed to womenGoddard, Gloria
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Womanhood : $b The facts of life revealed to women
Goddard, Gloria
Married women -- Psychology; Women -- Social and moral questions
The next revolutionary step is the realization that marriages are not
sponsored by a group of bodiless cherubs, sitting on some remote cloud
in heaven, but are of the earth, earthy, and are consequently human
relationships, of a contractural nature, which may be terminated like
any other human relationship. Our whole method of mating is haphazard
in the extreme; there is no provision for adequate knowledge of the
proposed partner; there is no certainty that this woman or man, thrown in
contact with that man or woman through proximity or unplanned causes, is
a human organism so sensitive physically, mentally, and spiritually that
it can co-operate helpfully with its mate. Men and women are doomed to
make mistakes. We are all willing to admit these mistakes in any field
other than the love field, and would hold a man a fool if he remained
under business contract with a partner absolutely unfitted to associate
with him in that particular enterprise. Yet, we expect persons who make
mistakes in the matrimonial field to stick it out, regardless of the
unfitness of either member of the agreement.
It remains for the new morality to propose a dignified way of terminating
such errors. At the present time, the divorce laws hold in practice
that the man and woman who realize their unfitness for each other, and
determine to secure a divorce, are criminals, guilty of collusion; this
at least is the law in many states and nations. Certain states hold that
the “guilty party” in a divorce action may not remarry. One party to
the action must be considered, legally at least, a social pariah before
any termination of the marital vows will be allowed. This is more than
absurd, it is brutal. Divorce laws in harmony with the new morality will
permit a man and woman, who have erred in their love choice, to part as
friends, rather than as enemies, and will leave no stigma of shame upon
either of them, nor any restrictions as to their future actions.
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