Womanhood : $b The facts of life revealed to womenGoddard, Gloria
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Womanhood : $b The facts of life revealed to women
Goddard, Gloria
Married women -- Psychology; Women -- Social and moral questions
But even the most assiduous silence on the part of the parent rarely
prevents the girl from learning some part of the truth. As soon as the
little girl commences going to school, she is exposed to the danger of
learning these vital facts, and learning them in a sordid way. Even the
most careful of parents cannot keep from arousing a child’s curiosity
concerning its body. Chance remarks are overheard; when the child reaches
the school age, words seen in books, heard in conversation, send the
curious one to the dictionary; worst of all, information is freely
scattered by their less restrained and more evil-minded companions. These
facts, seen through the fouling haze of secrecy and miscomprehension,
tantalize the youthfully curious mind. The young girl, hating to appear
less knowing than her acquaintances, adopts the secrecy of her elders,
and prowls through books and dictionaries; her mind, like a mole, chases
the truth through the dark of ignorance, until what truth she finally
gleans is smudged with the filth of the streets, and dulled by an aura
of shame. They learn bad habits, alone or by falling into unhealthy
relationships with other girls, if they do not know the facts.
This accurate knowledge, properly given, is the more valuable, if to it
is added a restrained example on the part of the parents. If the mother’s
actions are admirable, this example is a louder preachment to the young
daughter than any amount of words. Nor need a mother shrink from telling
her daughter the simple facts of life. These mysteries can be pointed out
in a beautiful way through the life-stories of animals and plants. The
simple tale of how young birds and kittens arrive in the world can be
made into a lovely symbol of the girl’s own origin, and will point out to
her the role that she, in the normal course of nature, will fulfil.
_Adolescent Training._—The essential thing to guard in the adolescent
girl is her bodily health. If the body is properly cared for, the sexual
nature will take care of itself. Barring some physical deformity, sexual
life grows strongly and healthily of its own accord. A normal woman is
capable of bearing at least thirty children. This is neither desirable
nor economically possible, today. The task is to rein sexual energy, not
to stimulate it. Exercise drains off this energy, which, in the girl,
is chiefly an undefined longing. Enjoyable occupations keep the girl’s
mind occupied and prevent that restlessness that is so taxing to the
adolescent person. All young girls should be encouraged in participating
in sports. They develop a healthy body, increase grace, and occupy a
nervous mind.
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