Womanhood : $b The facts of life revealed to womenGoddard, Gloria
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Womanhood : $b The facts of life revealed to women
Goddard, Gloria
Married women -- Psychology; Women -- Social and moral questions
_Essential Education._—Throughout a large portion of the world, education
in sexual matters is the accepted custom. Most of the savage tribes
have it. Oriental civilizations still practice it, and are the better
for it. Our ancestors, until the birth of Christianity, knew it. The
Old Testament lays down frank and open laws upon the subject. But the
rites of sexual education had groped so far toward licentiousness, that
Christianity, banning the latter, smothered the former. The Christian
doctrine, aiming professedly toward cleaner living, taught that the body
was worthless, and pointed toward a future life, when only the spirit
would count. Since the body was worthless, and since catering to its
appetites led to much so-called wrong, it followed that the body, and
all that pertained to it, must be vile; only the soul was sacred. Out of
this there gradually grew a taboo. Discussion of this vital subject was
prohibited. It is this prohibition that has done the greatest harm to the
Christian men and women of today.
Any sensible person can see that this teaching is worse than false. It,
not the body, is vile. Slowly, after nineteen hundred years of a lie, out
of the blood of the World War, the truth is springing, phoenix-like. The
lie has been the more insidious since men have never practiced it. The
pale Galilean light of chastity has wavered like an _ignis fatuus_ over a
distant horizon; men, gazing toward it, have stumbled into pitfalls that
had otherwise been mountain heights. The joy of the body lived and grew
in spite of taboos, but, like a flower doomed to bloom in a cellar, it
flourished wanly, and raised its anemic tendrils in the foul blackness of
subterfuge.
Only within the last decade has man come to see the foulness of this
course. Slowly the race is lifting itself out of this slough of deceit.
It rests with each parent to see that the rising continues, until the day
dawns when every girl and boy will know all of the facts of life, and
know them correctly, in all their shining beauty. Then, and then only,
will that _ignis fatuus_ fade in the new dawn of a brighter light.
It is the silence of the parents that does the most toward making life
seem sordid, and brutal. If the parent maintains an obdurate and
sanctified silence, as the majority do, will the girl grow into a second
Mary? Unfortunately, yes. But science has so far enlightened the race,
that we no longer are willing to accept stories of virgin births, and are
too apt to see, with cynical eyes, the Angel Gabriel in any of the young
men about town. Mothers expect girls to wait for this necessary knowledge
until they are married, and then to learn it from the young husband. But
all too frequently, the husband is as sadly ignorant as his bride. What
then? Will some miracle point the way to happiness? Sadly enough miracles
are infrequent. Both young people blunder on, usually into misery.
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