But in preventing her from aggression upon their forms and traditions
men lose more than they gain. She is humbugged out of her womanhood,
but she is still a woman, and does not cease to influence their inner
life. The systems of society--such as marriage--are preserved, but
the individual man suffers. He meets hardness where he looks for
tolerance, and condemnation where he needs help. Worse still, for her
conventionality is borrowed and therefore unintelligent, he finds
himself imprisoned in traditions which he himself would destroy and
create anew were it not for the timidity of the conventional women.
Thus in a typical men’s State where the creative work of women is
ignored, where women are prevented by legal and economic barriers
from access to external sources of power and hampered by conventional
ignorance of life, they have an insidious influence which evades all
the means by which men try to keep it in check. The fabric of the
State, the organised systems, remain apparently intact, but the private
life of men becomes sour and stale. The more men deny the rights of
women in public, the more they are delivered over to the obscure
dissatisfactions of their women in private. The conventional women
whom men evoke for their own protection have in the end a more fatal,
because a thwarted, influence on human life than the fearless women.
Among the Hindus, for example, where the social systems of men have
hardened into cast-iron (perhaps because the women have been prevented
from free expression), the negative power of women is very great. Women
are not merely inferior imitations of men: they create men or destroy
them.
The question may be put, If the whole of human experience is the
natural concern of women, and if women are indeed endowed with the
capacity to understand and foster the growth of the human spirit, how
is it possible for women to accept a narrow conventional morality? It
is possible because unconscious life is remarkably suggestible, and in
a society where womanly traditions are mainly negative the continuous
pressure of conventional values is applied to girls almost from
childhood. Only rare women with a genius for womanhood can resist the
potency of such suggestions.
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