In married life women display the same passionate interest in other
people, even though husbands and families absorb a certain amount of
it. Neighbours, servants, and children are their dearest topics. No
woman is bored when she is discussing other people; and this is true of
both educated and uneducated women. The things which primarily concern
women as women are human affairs and experiences, material which helps
them more capably to scrutinise, to interpret, and to meddle with the
people they meet. The result is that they often meddle tediously with
other people’s lives. Like Hedda Gabler, they must have their fingers
in somebody’s destiny, destructively if not creatively. Destruction of
this kind instead of creation is tragic, but it arises at least from a
pre-occupation with humanity, and so, unlike war, it is womanly.
Thus the current of women’s interests sets definitely towards actual
human beings and concrete situations rather than abstract theories.
There are other aspects of womanhood which confirm the hypothesis that
women’s strength lies in unconscious rather than in conscious life, and
which can be briefly enumerated.
The first of these is too obvious to require comment. By general
consent of men, women are more irrational and impulsive than men are.
Secondly, women have a strong, if inarticulate, affinity with what is
called Nature; a fact which is symbolised by the personification of
Nature as a woman. Nature in this sense is the sum of that growing
life which has not reached the conscious level of humanity. To this
growing life, vegetable or animal, women are never indifferent:
their reactions to it are strongly emotional, whether sympathetic
or antipathetic. When because of some timidity they cannot exercise
their creative power on human beings, they readily foster plants or
animals instead, and there are women who can do so with the sureness
of intuitive knowledge. They are more obviously affected by natural
phenomena than men; their sexual life, for example, is governed by the
phases of the moon, and it is claimed that their fertility varies with
the rainfall and the earth’s magnetic currents. Thirdly, they have an
immediate sense of the significance of life: they have the same vivid
interest in even trivial affairs that one finds in dreams. Women have
none of the detachment which is equally prepared to prove that life
is significant or that it is meaningless. They assume without proof
that life, especially human life, is significant; they are so deeply
immersed in life that it is not possible for them to question its value
as men do. For this reason they are more tenacious of life than men.
Fourthly, they come to maturity earlier than men do, although they
live longer on the average. This does not mean that women remain in
a state of arrested development as compared with men: the advent of
puberty does not put a stop to mental and spiritual development. But
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