Women in English Life from Mediæval to Modern Times, Vol. IHill, Georgiana
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Women in English Life from Mediæval to Modern Times, Vol. I
Hill, Georgiana
Women -- Great Britain; Women -- History; Women -- Social conditions
The flirtation with literature, the coquetting with accomplishments
which passed for female education, were shams, like the powdered
_pouffs_ of hair and the face-washes. It was an age of shams,
and women were told, in effect if not in words, that successful
shamming was their _rôle_ in life. They were to sham sensitiveness,
modesty, ignorance (which could not have been difficult), anything
and everything which it was deemed likely would commend them to the
perverted taste of the day. The vapourish, hysterical, fainting
heroines of romance are only slightly coloured pictures of reality.
The physical effects of the system of education were as harmful as the
results on the mind.
“Miss is set down to her frame before she can put on her
clothes; and is taught to believe that to excel at the needle
is the only thing that can entitle her to general esteem....
One hardly meets with a girl who can at the same time boast of
early performances by the needle and a good constitution.”[67]
_The Female Spectator_ issued a protest against that devotion to the
needle, which was regarded as one of the cardinal virtues in women:--
“Nor can I by any means approve of compelling young ladies
of fortune to make so much use of the needle, as they did in
former days, and some few continue to do. In my opinion a
lady of condition should learn just as much of cookery and of
work as to know when she is imposed upon by those she employs
in both those necessary occasions, but no more. To pass too
much of her time in them may acquire her the reputation of a
notable housewife, but not of a woman of fine taste, or any way
qualify her for polite conversation, or of entertaining herself
agreeably when alone. It always makes me smile when I hear the
mother of fine daughters say, ‘I always keep my girls at their
needle.’ One, perhaps, is working her a gown, another a quilt
for a bed, and a third engaged to make a whole dozen of shirts
for her father. And then when she has carried you into the
nursery and shewn you them all, add, ‘It is good to keep them
out of idleness; when young people have nothing to do, they
naturally wish to do something they ought not.’”
In the second half of the century, when the influence of the
fashionable world was more strongly felt among the _bourgeoisie_,
the boarding-school, with its flimsy accomplishments and its lack of
solid education, began to attract the daughters of a different class.
Hitherto it had been the monopoly of the so-called gentlefolk, but now
mingling with these were the daughters of tradesmen and farmers, who
had money to spend and a fancy for making “ladies” of their girls. It
may have been a step up in the social ladder for these newcomers, but
from an educational point of view it was no gain. The training of the
fashionable boarding-school was only a veneer.
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
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