The tone of most of the papers and of our theatrical advertisements
reflects this feeling. The amount of money expended for a work of art or
a new building is mentioned before any comment as to its beauty or
fitness. A play is spoken of as "Manager So and So's thirty-thousand-
dollar production!" The fact that a favorite actress will appear in four
different dresses during the three acts of a comedy, each toilet being a
special creation designed for her by a leading Parisian house, is
considered of supreme importance and is dwelt upon in the programme as a
special attraction.
It would be astonishing if the taste of our women were different,
considering the way clothes are eternally being dangled before their
eyes. Leading papers publish illustrated supplements devoted exclusively
to the subject of attire, thus carrying temptation into every humble
home, and suggesting unattainable luxuries. Windows in many of the
larger shops contain life-sized manikins loaded with the latest costly
and ephemeral caprices of fashion arranged to catch the eye of the poorer
class of women, who stand in hundreds gazing at the display like larks
attracted by a mirror! Watch those women as they turn away, and listen
to their sighs of discontent and envy. Do they not tell volumes about
petty hopes and ambitions?
I do not refer to the wealthy women whose toilets are in keeping with
their incomes and the general footing of their households; that they
should spend more or less in fitting themselves out daintily is of little
importance. The point where this subject becomes painful is in families
of small means where young girls imagine that to be elaborately dressed
is the first essential of existence, and, in consequence, bend their
labors and their intelligence towards this end. Last spring I asked an
old friend where she and her daughters intended passing their summer. Her
answer struck me as being characteristic enough to quote: "We should much
prefer," she said, "returning to Bar Harbor, for we all enjoy that place
and have many friends there. But the truth is, my daughters have bought
themselves very little in the way of toilet this year, as our finances
are not in a flourishing condition. So my poor girls will be obliged to
make their last year's dresses do for another season. Under these
circumstances, it is out of the question for us to return a second summer
to the same place."
I do not know how this anecdote strikes my readers. It made me
thoughtful and sad to think that, in a family of intelligent and
practical women, such a reason should be considered sufficient to
outweigh enjoyment, social relations, even health, and allowed to change
the plans of an entire family.
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