Your boy and his training : $b A practical treatise on boy-trainingPuller, Edwin Seward
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Your boy and his training : $b A practical treatise on boy-training
Puller, Edwin Seward
Boys; Child rearing
Boy-problems are as universal as boys--Boys too often regarded
as necessary evils--Necessity for training--How to study the
boy--Tendencies in present-day education of children--Character-
culture should come first--The home is the place and the parent
the agency--Boys more difficult to train than girls--The boy’s
viewpoint--Parental indifference to boy-training--Each boy is an
individual problem.
II. PARENTAL RESPONSIBILITY 15
Causes of waywardness--Wrong training and bad environment--
Parental ignorance concerning boy-training--An instance--
Heredity--Accountability of the parent--Spending money--Laxity
of discipline--Average parent not fully equipped for his job.
III. CHILD PSYCHOLOGY 30
Table of psychic characteristics at several ages--Infancy and
imagination--Early boyhood and individualism--Early adolescence
and hero-worship--Later adolescence and thoughtful mental
attitude--Age when puberty occurs--Period of motor activity.
IV. ADOLESCENT PSYCHOLOGY 52
Adolescence the period of storm and stress--Change from
childhood to manhood--Puberty--Physical indicia--Mental
indicia--Psychic disturbances--Truancy and wanderlust--Lack of
continuity of purpose and action--Proximity to the savage
state--Humor--Sex-consciousness and its manifestations--Love
affairs--Plasticity of mind--Will-power appears--Age of
discretion--Cycles of susceptibility to religious influences--
Age of experimentation--Hero-worship and its manifestations--
Object of hero-worship--Gratitude lacking--Reflective period--
Introspection--Sense of perspective is distorted--Visionary
ambitions--Dislike of older boy for younger--Will-power,
mental and moral stature attained.
V. THE BOY’S VIEWPOINT 80
Difference of viewpoint at differing psychic ages--Youth and
age contrasted--The boy’s desire for physical expression--
Inability for sustained mental or physical effort--Adult must
put himself in boy’s place to understand him--The natural adult
leader of boys--Boy lives in the present--Parent must do child’s
thinking for him--Injustice to boy from failure to consider his
standards.
VI. OBEDIENCE 92
The cornerstone of child-training--Children’s attitude toward
parents--Its causes and effects--Character is predicated on
obedience--Parental prohibitions which cause disobedience--Habit
of obedience formed most easily in early childhood--How
obedience may be cultivated--Commands must be founded on justice
and reason--Disobedience results from parental caprice or
injustice--Illustrations--The rational quality in the boy--
Importance of paternal example.
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