Your boy and his training : $b A practical treatise on boy-training — John Shaqi
Your boy and his training : $b A practical treatise on boy-trainingPuller, Edwin Seward
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Your boy and his training : $b A practical treatise on boy-training
Puller, Edwin Seward
Boys; Child rearing
Sex-consciousness now asserts itself in an increased but diffident
interest in the opposite sex, accompanied by blushes, embarrassment,
and self-consciousness when in their presence. The desire to appear
attractive in the eyes of his girl friends prompts minute and
painstaking attention to dress, and the brilliant plumage of the male
bird is reflected in the bright colors of his attire. Formerly he
regarded girl playmates from the same viewpoint from which he regarded
boys and they were placed on the same plane and received the same
consideration as that accorded to those of his own sex, except where
the teaching of the sex-conscious parent required him to display a
gentleness toward them which his own lack of sex-consciousness failed
to prompt. Now, gentleness, courtesy, and gallantry are inspired by
adolescence from within. The companionship of the adolescent with pure,
high-minded girls of his own age is beneficial to both in the greatest
degree. Such associations are of educational value in that they project
high ideals of the feminine traits of gentleness, sweetness, and
purity whose influence is reflected in his improved manners, dress,
and conduct. It fosters the idealistic and spiritual phase of love and
removes it from the coarseness and baseness engendered by the purely
sexual appeal. These love affairs are numerous but transitory--their
duration being dependent upon the time required to satisfy his
idealism; and at the first suggestion that his idol has feet of clay
his affection is transferred to another pretty face and sweet nature.
Not infrequently he bestows his affection upon a girl several years
older than himself, to which he is actuated by two impulses--the
half-formed sex-impulse of the man to seek a mate, and his adolescent
need of “mothering,” both of which are measurably gratified by the
reciprocal love of an older girl.
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