Your boy and his training : $b A practical treatise on boy-trainingPuller, Edwin Seward
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Your boy and his training : $b A practical treatise on boy-training
Puller, Edwin Seward
Boys; Child rearing
He begins his love-making slyly and shamefacedly. George waits after
school, occupied with an ostensible engagement which will consume
the time until Mary shall appear. His meeting with her, after all
these elaborate plans, appears to be quite unexpected. A diffident
greeting is followed by an inquiry as to whether she is going home.
Her affirmative answer is seized upon as his excuse for walking in
her direction. Then follows his request to be permitted to carry her
books. They discuss matters of mutual interest in school or social
life, while he, with furtive glances, notes the beauty of her face,
the wealth of her hair, and the velvet of her cheek. Sunlight is
playing hide-and-seek in her eyes, while the roses in her cheeks blush
a deeper red, matching the ribbon which adorns her pigtails as she
feels the flood of his unexpressed admiration surging over her. Never
was there such a wondrous being in all the world! He idealizes her
every attribute until she surmounts a pedestal far removed from things
earthy. A smile of approval from this young goddess is treasured in
his heart of hearts, sacred from the misunderstandings of a profane
world. He is assailed by daydreams of knight-errantry in which he is
performing some chivalrous act of heroism to which the maiden shall be
a witness. Or better still, he imagines himself playing the part of a
cavalier rescuing her own sweet self from distress or danger and then
receiving as his reward her avowal of affection, while he protests that
his heroism is nothing and that he would do a thousand times more for
her.
Evidences of his tender regard for the girl of his choice are given
in secret, as too holy for an unappreciative world to comprehend, and
the twittings of his elders on the subject of puppy love (cruel in
their unsound psychology) are met with prompt and positive denials.
Such manifestations of incipient affection should be recognized as the
intermediary elaboration of a high and spiritual love whose ultimate
fruition will be matrimony. All the world loves a lover--provided he is
not a boy. The adult who cannot see the psychology in such incidents
must be blind indeed.
The exceptional plasticity of mind characteristic of this age renders
him highly susceptible to influences for good or evil. It is the great
character-building period of his life in which are crystallized his
moral and ethical concepts which attain their latter perfection in the
succeeding period. Your boy is putty in your hands. He is a superlative
impressionist. His impressionistic mind is molded as deeply by evil as
by good. For this reason, it is necessary that his environment--which
is the cumulative influence of the precept, example, and conditions
which surround him--should be good and wholesome. As the drip-drip-drip
of water wears away the stone, so the constant drip of environing
influences wears its way into character.
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