Your boy and his training : $b A practical treatise on boy-trainingPuller, Edwin Seward
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Your boy and his training : $b A practical treatise on boy-training
Puller, Edwin Seward
Boys; Child rearing
His mental and moral stature has been reached by gradual and almost
unnoticed gradations; and such growth, which had its beginning in blank
chaos, has been even greater and more marvelous than his physical
growth between birth and maturity.
Self-flattered, unexperienced, high in hope,
When young, with sanguine cheer and streamers gay,
We cut our cable, launch into the world
And fondly dream each wind and star our friend.
--Young’s NIGHT THOUGHTS.
CHAPTER V
THE BOY’S VIEWPOINT
A correct understanding of boy-nature is conditioned on one’s ability
to obtain his point of view, which differs widely from that of the
adult. It has been stated in a previous chapter that the viewpoints of
a boy at six, ten, fourteen, and eighteen years of age differ as widely
from each other as those of four adults of remotely differing natures
and temperaments. We frequently make the mistake of assuming that
the boy is a small edition of a man, possessing faculties, emotions,
desires, and understanding the same as in the adult but developed in a
lesser degree. On the contrary, his mental and psychological processes
differ fundamentally from those of maturity. Boys are not little men
and should not be judged by men’s standards.
The ignorant peasant who views the masterpieces of the Louvre sees
them through dull, uncomprehending eyes. He sees but does not
_perceive_, because his appreciation of artistic beauty is limited
by a circumscribed capacity. Just so, the boy, circumscribed by
the limitations of his mind and soul, views life and its complex
manifestations with such capacities as he possesses. If your mental
and psychological limits were those of a boy in the hero-worship
period, your tastes, desires, judgments, opinions, and actions would
conform exactly to that boy-standard. Your standards of ambition and
achievement would be purely physical and therefore you would prefer the
prize fighter to the scientist.
The physical and mental requirements for youth and age are as wide
apart as the two poles. As reminiscence characterizes old age, so
enjoyment of the present typifies young age. The Bard of Avon has thus
compared their physical and mental characteristics:
Crabbed age and youth,
Cannot live together;
Youth is full of pleasure,
Age is full of care:
Youth like summer morn,
Age like winter weather;
Youth like summer brave,
Age like winter bare;
Youth is full of sport,
Age’s breath is short;
Youth is nimble, age is lame;
Youth is hot and bold,
Age is weak and cold;
Youth is wild and age is tame.
Age I do abhor thee;
O, my love, my love is young:
Age I do defy thee;
O sweet shepherd hie thee,
For methinks thou stay’st too long.
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